There was a break in the relationship, but the past does not want to let you go. You constantly think about him, about your love. Maybe you should talk more often? It's difficult to make yourself a part of his life again, but this happens not at all as rarely as one might think. If both of you have not forgotten your feelings, then they will return and whirl you with renewed vigor.
Instructions
Step 1
Remember why you broke up, who initiated this. If the reason was your eccentricity and thoughtlessness of actions, work on yourself. He probably doesn't want to face the same attitude towards himself now. You still have mutual friends, places of meetings and communication with them.
Step 2
Show up there even if your ex-boyfriend didn't show up today. In conversations with mutual acquaintances, emphasize that parting with a loved one changed your attitude towards life, you began to think about your actions and words. It will surely reach his ears, and information about your life will continue to flow to him. You cannot completely disappear if you want to return a person.
Step 3
Change your appearance, remember the preferences of your ex-boyfriend, what attracted him to girls. Get as close to his ideal as possible. But don't forget about your personality and taste. Tidy up your body - stop eating stress and go for a swim or run in the morning. Get some sexy items for your wardrobe. Become a confident woman who is aware of her attractiveness.
Step 4
Of course, other guys will start paying attention to you, not just your ex! But this is for the best, maybe he will be afraid that you will be taken away, and will take the initiative himself. Call him sometimes, inquire about health, about events in his life. Speak kindly and evenly so that he feels in you a friend, a person with whom you can consult.
Step 5
Radiate positive - a cheerful, sociable girl is always paid attention to. Show that you are doing well, your life is in control and not going to collapse. Do not bring up the topic of breaking up in conversations with your ex - it can scare him off. If he himself talks about it, do not blame each other, discuss calmly, analyzing common mistakes and gaining experience.
Step 6
Try to share his hobbies - surfing, cycling, computer games, music. There are many new topics of conversation for you. The guy will respect you, appreciate your persistence. In this case, you can ask his advice and help - you are a beginner! Such requests will not be perceived negatively, because this topic is interesting to him, and, therefore, you too.
