You are old enough to date someone. There is a concern that the young guys are not showing any interest in you. And you, on the contrary, more often began to notice that you are surrounded by only couples in love.
You want to get your guy's attention, but your recent setbacks are stopping you. Thoughts about their own unattractiveness appear. Can this be fixed? How to attract the attention of a nice young man without losing your dignity?
It is necessary
communication skills
Instructions
Step 1
Understand yourself. Tell yourself honestly what you want. I must admit that some girls just want male attention. And the more guys are interested in them, the better. Other girls have made their choice and are waiting for attention from a certain prince. Well, if you are attracted by a serious long-term relationship with a guy, this is a completely different matter, and will contribute to the achievement of your goal to a greater extent.
Step 2
Be observant. If you are serious, take the time to look at the guy from the outside. If he likes simpletons who have not yet formed a character, and you are not one of those, then you will not be able to hold his attention on yourself. Leave it and forget it. A worthy young man will pay attention to your spiritual qualities. Use this as your trump card.
Step 3
Take care of yourself with modesty in mind. Attention can also be attracted by grotesque style. A girl who is dressed tastefully and modestly looks much more attractive. Let your clothes whisper about your dreams instead of screaming about a desperate need for attention. Excessiveness and negligence are more likely to alienate a serious guy than attract his attention.
Step 4
Improve your communication skills. An astute guy notices everything. Attract him with your gentleness in voice and reticence. Maintain a respectful style. It will be reflected in the ability to listen without interrupting. Share your opinion, but not categorically. By dominating the conversation and insisting on your own, you discourage the guy from listening to you. In conversation, hint that you know what you want out of life. But don't brag about your accomplishments. If you notice a mistake in the words of the interlocutor, refrain from correcting.
Step 5
Monitor your mood. Express contentment instead of whims. In a conversation with a guy, do not criticize relatives, especially "ancestors". Cheerfulness will quickly attract attention and preserve it for a long time than vulnerability and resentment.
