The judgment that a man should take the first step is not entirely correct. If your attention is attracted by a pleasant stranger, there is nothing more harmless to at least speak to him. Who knows, maybe later he will admit that at that moment he himself was afraid to even look in your direction.
Instructions
Step 1
If you find it difficult to talk to strangers, you get lost and begin to feel embarrassed, then practice will help get rid of this. Fear is a natural emotion and it is inherent in every person. But if you can step over it once, then the next time it will be even easier, because you will have experience. Start by smiling. Smile at least one guy you don't know every day. Most likely, you will never meet again, but even this second meeting will leave pleasant emotions. You will see, he will smile back at you too.
Step 2
Use minor requests, appropriate compliments, and jokes. Lost? Ask that nice guy for directions. Greet the men who open doors for you with a smile and a slight nod of the head. Present an unflattering remark like: "A beautiful scarf!" a stranger walking by with a fluttering two-meter accessory around his neck. Have a joke with the courier who delivered the pizza to you. To be understood correctly, do not try to flirt with all your might, behave naturally.
Step 3
When the acquaintance has taken place, continue it with a conversation. Perhaps it will already be held, say, in the nearest coffee shop. The reason may be the place in which you are ("It's cozy here. Do you often go here?"), And the drink that you drink ("Maybe another cappuccino?"), And the background music around. Ask open-ended questions, but only those that can be asked to a person you know for only a couple of hours. For example, “How do you like this movie? Now everyone is talking about him only."
Step 4
Don't be afraid to fail, you're just chatting. Perhaps the person who made a pleasant impression on you will actually not be so interesting. Your goal is not to "lasso into your networks", but simply to learn how to communicate easily. And, of course, you shouldn't train your skills to attract the attention of guys several times a day. Otherwise, you risk losing the line between communication and accessibility.
