The first impression, although it can be deceiving, is remembered forever and, at times, it plays a key role in whether the relationship will continue in the future. Therefore, special attention should be paid to immediately arouse interest in a man.
Instructions
Step 1
Use humor. Most men appreciate in women the ability to joke subtly and in an original way. But before you use your abilities, observe what sense of humor a man has - pick up his wave and "swim" in one direction.
Step 2
Be confident. Not every man is attracted to excessive embarrassment and inappropriate modesty. Therefore, it is better to appear before him in the guise of a brave and strong woman. Just in no case try to surpass him in word or deed - a man should feel superior to you.
Step 3
Ask for his opinion. Men need to feel smart and literate. Therefore, if you ask his opinion, ask for advice or show interest in his point of view, he will certainly appreciate it and open up to you.
Step 4
Show trust. Even at the first acquaintance, this can be done skillfully and not pretentiously. For example, you might give him a selection of cocktails for you by saying, “I have no doubt you know a lot about this. I will trust your choice. As you get to know him more, you will be able to show trust in other areas as well.
Step 5
Emphasize what unites you. A community of interests can unite people who seem to be very different at first glance, because this is the basis of relations, and then deeper factors.
Step 6
Keep the conversation going. Give the man the opportunity to speak, rather than take the initiative. Know how to support a topic that interests him, but if you do not understand what is at stake, or are not strong in this matter, then do not be afraid to admit it. After all, it is impossible to know everything. And realizing your limitations is much more pleasant than pretending that you understand what it is about, and then being eventually exposed in your incompetence.
Step 7
Smile and be open. A sincere smile, eye contact, and open body movements will show that you are friendly and open to a relationship of trust. On a subconscious level, this can affect the brain of any man and hook him.
Step 8
Let them take care of you. If a man is not too proactive, you can show him yourself that you need his help. And he will certainly show her - it cannot be otherwise, because he is a man.
