Sometimes, even in the absence of complexes, a person has difficulties in communicating with the opposite sex. It is especially difficult for teenagers to find the right words in the presence of an object of passion.
So that the appearance of an attractive guy or girl does not cause stupor, embarrassment and rapid breathing in you, several rules must be followed.
1. Understand that finding a common topic of conversation is not as difficult as you think. If you are sympathetic to someone, but you know the person rather poorly, it automatically starts to seem to you that it is almost unrealistic to choose an interesting topic for conversation. The fear of overlooking the choice of a reason for communication and being an uninteresting interlocutor in the eyes of someone who evokes tender feelings deprives you of the chance for reciprocity. Once in the same company with the girl you like, suppress the internal storm of emotions and try to watch her. Does she have some African bracelets on her arm? Let her know that you've always liked ethnic accessories. Does the guy you're secretly in love with smoking expensive cigarettes? Recommend him a new smoking accessory store.
2. Do not impose your communication on someone who does not need it. Every person wants his communication with others to be comfortable and interesting. Respect the right of someone you like to have an opinion. Feeling tense and awkward in your relationship? Try to figure out the reason for the dislike towards you. If you see that it is unpleasant for a person to communicate with you, it is better to step back before it comes to outright dislike.
3. At the moment when it becomes difficult to breathe or you start to stutter with excitement, remember that anyone can be in such a situation. And the one who provokes the onset of your panic, most likely at least once in his life blushed himself and did not know what words to choose. Realizing this, you will feel great relief - and, finally, you will cease to be afraid that cold rejection or cynical arrogance may await you.
