Often in life there is such a situation when, after a few years of marriage, a woman begins to notice that the interest in her on the part of her partner is not as bright as before. At the same time, if a man began to pay little attention, then thoughts of a rival begin to creep into the head of many women, and few people think about the fact that they themselves are partly to blame for the decrease in interest. But fatigue, heavy workloads can also serve as a reason that a man simply does not have enough strength for something else.
Instructions
Step 1
Look at yourself in the mirror and try to assess yourself objectively. Maybe before you looked much better, were slimmer, and always had beautiful styling on your head? If the answers to all these questions are not comforting, then something urgently needs to be done. Sign up for the gym, the pool. Even if you have a good figure, playing sports will not be superfluous. Go to a beauty salon and change your hairstyle, hair color. Do some other beauty treatments to help you look fresher and more beautiful. Change the technique of applying make-up, you can even attend special make-up courses, where in a couple of days you will be taught various options for make-up.
Step 2
See what you wear at home. An old washed bathrobe, stretched sweatpants and a dirty T-shirt obviously cannot make your other half a surge of desire and interest. Nowadays there are so many comfortable but beautiful home clothes on sale in stores, so spend some money and buy yourself a beautiful home dress or suit.
Step 3
Also, take a critical look at your wardrobe as a whole. Maybe boring tones prevail in it, uninteresting clothes in the form of jeans, sweatpants and T-shirts. A man always wants to see a well-groomed, stylish woman next to him. If you don't meet this definition, then you should go to the store and radically change your wardrobe. You can even hire a stylist to help you choose beautiful clothes that match your personality and lifestyle.
Step 4
Think about what topics you communicate with your husband on a daily basis. Maybe he just got bored with you? Hearing daily about the household chores you redone, as well as the news received from your girlfriends, few can endure for a long time. Take up self-education, take some courses, be more interested in what is happening in the world. Become an interesting conversationalist for your husband who can support communication on a variety of topics.
Step 5
Diversify your sex life. Buy beautiful lingerie, arrange a romantic evening with an appropriate continuation so that your man will remember it for a long time. For example, prepare a relaxing bath with foam or essential oils for your husband's arrival. And then do a massage with oils that increase sex drive (jasmine, neroli, ylang-ylang, etc.). Or prepare a light dinner of unusual dishes, buy a bottle of good wine, and after dinner you can perform an erotic dance that will definitely not leave your spouse indifferent.
