The couple has been in a relationship for a long time, and the former passion has died out in intimate proximity. This happens because both halves already know each other's flaws, and this is a repulsive moment in sex. Sexual intercourse happens, but rarely, and there is no past spark and passion. How to diversify sex so that it pleases both parties?
Even if harmony reigns in a couple, the spouses understand each other perfectly, there are no quarrels and scandals - this is not a guarantee of good sex. Below you can find out how to improve relationships in this area and give each other pleasure.
You need to listen to yourself, your body
Nowadays there is a fashion for a beautiful, healthy body. Many young people do daily workouts to improve their bodies and also beautify their eyes, lips, and more. The reasons why people strive to change themselves are individual.
However, cultivation has nothing to do with your sex life. Maybe the couple should experiment and look for an activity that will benefit them. For example, she might pull up to dance, improve stretching, or take yoga classes.
Experimenting in intimacy
Many couples start their own traditions, for example, celebrating anniversaries, Valentine's Day, New Years. At the same time, as a rule, the scenario for such holidays remains unchanged. In sex, too, everything is the same.
Time for a change
It is likely that the couple needs to talk, find out if the partner wants to somehow change the relationship, bring in other, brighter colors. Such changes will affect your sex life for the better.
One must be the initiator
If the girl is not the initiator of sexual intercourse, then such actions can annoy her. It is worth overcoming your embarrassment and taking all the initiative into your own hands.
Learning to say no
There is often such a thing as "conciliatory sex". But perhaps the girl has not yet forgiven her partner and is not ready for intimacy. In this case, it is better to refuse, explaining the reasons for your refusal. If you do not do this, then, of course, there will be aversion to sex and you will not want to repeat it over and over again.
It is worth giving sex the necessary amount of time
People are often engaged in work, household chores and do not devote more than a few minutes a week to sexual intercourse. This is because sex is not high on the priority list. This can also lead to reluctance.
Sexual strengths worth identifying
If such are found, then do not forget about them. They will help to open up and enjoy. It is worth remembering these feelings of awareness of your sexuality and using them when necessary.
