In the life of almost every married couple, sooner or later there comes a moment when the former passion gradually begins to fade away. This may be due to a trivial habit or deeper reasons, but fortunately, there is no such problem that does not have a solution. Let's figure out how to bring passion back into a husband-wife relationship.
Why does sexual desire disappear?
French writer Frederic Beigbeder claims that love lives for three years. This point of view may seem very cynical, but, oddly enough, psychologists and sexologists are of the same opinion. The fact is that after three years psychological addiction sets in, and hormones, which until recently caused a feeling of passion and sexual desire, are produced in smaller quantities than at the very beginning of the relationship. You can build numerous guesses about the reasons for this annoying phenomenon, but the fact remains: sooner or later a spark leaves sex and it turns into the same routine as cleaning or going to the store.
This causes disappointment in both spouses and even the thought that love has left the relationship. But this is not so: the fact is that passions cannot boil forever, and love gradually begins to reach new levels, develops and becomes deeper. But does this mean that it is worth giving up a rich sex life and being content with spiritual kinship and a well-established life? Not at all. Sex can be good not only for the first three years of family life, you just have to approach it more consciously and not be afraid to experiment.
How to bring passion back into a husband-wife relationship
If novelty is the main condition for passion, then you should not be afraid to bring something new into your sexual relationship. Today there is a huge selection of sex toys, outfits and various devices that can give new sensations and diversify erotic experiences.
Another way to bring passion back into a husband-wife relationship is through a change of scenery. Many spouses say that sex becomes completely different in a new place. Why not try renting a hotel room, spending a weekend in a rented cottage, or even having sex in a tent on a short hike?
New ideas can be gleaned from films for adults, which, unfortunately, many people are very afraid to watch because of their own shyness or stereotypes existing in the mind that watching such a movie is a dirty, unworthy occupation. In fact, porn films help to liberate yourself and, perhaps, find new ideas that you can bring to your relationship with your other half.
Do not be afraid to talk to each other about your desires and look for a solution to the problem together. If you let things take their course, then sooner or later this can lead to rather sad consequences. When there is no misunderstanding between the spouses and they are not afraid to raise sexual topics in conversations, they easily manage to find a solution to all problems, and sex will bring joy throughout family life.
