The first experience of intimate love is a special event that remains in the memory for many years. Many people want to preserve the most pleasant impressions about this moment, but this does not always happen, which is largely due to human fears. However, instead of tormenting yourself with all sorts of speculations, it is better to prepare in advance for the exciting process and tune in to a positive mood.
Nature designed it this way
Many people, especially romantic young ladies, are not alien to doubts about the intimate sphere. First of all, questions arise when it is only necessary to open a new side of relations with the opposite sex. Thoughts of losing your innocence are often frightening, but you shouldn't cheat yourself. After all, so many people overcame their anxiety and got the opportunity to be happy, not allowing fear to limit their personal life.
For some women, the loss of virginity does not bring discomfort. However, there are reasons that can cause pain during defloration. It may be an emotional panic that does not allow the vaginal muscles to relax to the extent necessary; excessive density of the hymen; gynecological diseases and poor blood clotting.
What should be done in each specific case? It all depends on the situation. Small psychological difficulties can be resolved by an ordinary heart-to-heart conversation with a partner. If they were caused by serious incidents, especially physical violence, a professional psychotherapist will help to overcome the phobia.
Various difficulties are possible when the vaginal mucosa is compacted due to the characteristics of the body or the coarsening of the hymen in terms of age. In this case, the natural process of losing virginity can be delayed, and also cause pain as a result of excessive rupture of the hymen and significant blood loss. If we talk about pathological conditions of the body, diseases of the genital organs and especially insufficient blood clotting, the first sexual experience should be preceded by qualified treatment with the use of the necessary drugs.
A radical solution to the problem
Sometimes the loss of virginity occurs in an alternative way - through surgery. This procedure is performed using a medical scalpel or laser and takes only a few minutes. But do not forget that even minor operations have an impact on the body and take time to restore normal health.
The main indications for the use of this method of defloration are: the impossibility of having sexual intercourse due to the increased density of the hymen or muscle spasms; blood clotting disorders; psychological characteristics that prevent you from relaxing properly. Such a procedure can be carried out both according to the results of examinations and at the request of the patient.
In nature, everything is thought out - the female body can bear and give birth to a child. It is logical that he is quite capable of withstanding the first sexual intercourse. Some fears are natural in nature and therefore difficult to avoid. But real feelings and trust between people can destroy even difficult barriers that prevent you from getting closer to each other.
