The attitude towards virginity has changed many times in the history of mankind. Some societies demanded the mandatory preservation of virginity until the first wedding night, others did not attach much importance to it. Today, virginity can be both an object of bargaining and a value kept for a single man. For your “first time” to be an enjoyable experience, you need to prepare for it.
Instructions
Step 1
Answer the question honestly: do you really want to lose your virginity? Very often, girls do this to "keep up" with their friends or to keep their boyfriend. You can part with innocence if you love your boyfriend and want to please him. Do not rush if you doubt your choice - if a guy loves you, he will understand and wait.
Step 2
Make sure you are physically prepared to take your virginity. Legislation in Russia establishes sexual inviolability for children under 16 years of age. Doctors warn that defloration performed at an early age can cause the development of inflammatory processes in the organs of the reproductive system, since the hymen closes the vagina from infection until its protective microflora is formed.
Step 3
Take care of protection. It will be very disappointing if your first sex leads to an unwanted pregnancy or illness. Therefore, it is best to use a condom that will protect both the first and the second. In addition, condoms are lubricated to make defloration easier. If you want to use local or oral contraceptives, it is advisable that they are prescribed by a gynecologist. After the first intercourse, you should also visit a doctor and check for injuries and infections.
Step 4
Try to relax as much as possible. The myth that losing your virginity is very painful is widespread. In fact, severe pain and bleeding are rare enough - with a very dense hymen and some other anatomical features. Unpleasant sensations in a girl usually arise from fear, which contributes to the contraction of the muscles in the vagina. If the partner excites the girl as much as possible and uses lubrication, then the pain will be minimal.
