The first sexual experience is a very important moment that remains in the memory for a lifetime. It is important to approach him responsibly so that everything goes well. And it must be remembered that pregnancy is possible even for the first time.
Instructions
Step 1
The first sex, the impressions of it, will depend on the partner. It is important that the person understands what is happening, take his time and be very tactful. Trust is an important moment in such a relationship, because it is necessary not only to get through this day, but also to learn how to enjoy the process. Agree ahead of time that this is your first time, that you haven’t tried anything bigger and want to experiment.
Step 2
Choose a suitable place where you can be alone, where no one will disturb. Having a bed would be a big plus. You can also create a romantic atmosphere, for example, light candles, decorate everything with rose petals. The right attitude will help you feel more relaxed. Good music will not be superfluous either.
Step 3
Sex always starts with foreplay. People hug each other, kiss, begin to undress. In this case, both are excited. Don't rush the first time, try to enjoy the anticipation. With more arousal of a woman, the likelihood of pain decreases, so it is worth paying more attention to this moment. Only engage in sexual intercourse when both partners are in tune and ready to continue.
Step 4
Defloration can take place in any position. There are no recommendations, it is only important that both partners feel comfortable and comfortable. At the same time, the process can be a little painful, but this is not always the case. A slight discharge of blood is also possible, if this happened, no need to be frightened. Just go to the bathtub and wash away any traces of it. The bleeding may continue for a while, but more often it ends after a few minutes.
Step 5
It is better to decide the issue of protection in advance. It is even possible to get pregnant for the first time, so it is worth considering condoms. This is the easiest and most convenient method of contraception. You can buy rubber products in stores or pharmacies, it is not at all difficult to use them, the instructions are on each package. In the process of love play, use this thing so that you do not get into trouble. A condom will not diminish a man's sensations, will not make his experiences less vivid, nor will it prevent a girl from having fun.
Step 6
An alternative method of protection is oral contraceptives. But these are pills that the doctor prescribes for regular sex life. It is not recommended to start drinking them before the first sex. They require constant intake, and will come in handy if you continue to have regular sex. Their disadvantage is the need for selection together with a gynecologist. And there are contraindications.
