When you are lucky enough to find your ideal couple, start a family, it is very important to try to maintain respect and love for many years of life together. The woman at all times was considered the keeper of the hearth. It is she who is able to create such an atmosphere in the family so that relations become stronger over time, and the marriage becomes happier.
Instructions
Step 1
It is important for a man to always remain master of the situation. Give your husband the power and ability to make decisions, even if you already have a clear plan of action. Lead your spouse to the decision you need, but in such a way that he feels able to lead the family. If the wife takes care of all the problems, then the husband may cease to be interested in the affairs of loved ones altogether.
Step 2
Never reproach your spouse for inaction by forcing them to do something. Show your husband your weakness, that you need him and his help. A man is by nature a protector, so give him the opportunity to feel like a protector of his family.
Step 3
Do not forget to be interested in your husband's affairs, periodically ask him about work, relationships with colleagues, friends. Strive to be aware of the hobbies and hobbies of your other half, show interest in this side of his life.
Step 4
Learn to control your emotions so that any general statement from your spouse does not apply to yourself. This is very important, otherwise you will always feel resentful. Never seek to remake your husband, change his worldview, psychological behavior. This can only make a man angry, but it will not produce a positive effect. You respected him when you married? Then do not arrange showdowns and scandals for him. Try to understand your spouse, learn to give him your care and love, and he will answer you in kind.
Step 5
Remember that small family holidays will help you not only have fun, take a break from everyday life, but also make peace after some family quarrel. Unlike a scandal, a quarrel is a dialogue of reasonable people, the purpose of which is to make a mutual decision. However, do not hesitate to give in and ask for forgiveness if you want to maintain respect and love in your marriage.
Step 6
Whatever happens, never manipulate food and sex. In these matters, a man should not feel slighted. Otherwise, he will begin to seek satisfaction elsewhere.
