Pregnancy is a special period in the life of not only a woman preparing to become a mother, but also the father of her unborn child. Some husbands complain that pregnant wives have become completely unbearable - they are often capricious, cry, they can make a scandal literally out of the blue. Yes, the husband of a pregnant woman often has a very difficult time. But right now, during this period, he must behave especially reasonably, tactfully and carefully.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, understand that your situation is far from unique. Many generations of men before you faced the same problems. The fact is that a real hormonal "storm" occurs in the body of a pregnant woman. This is what explains her mood swings, tearfulness, moodiness and even aggressiveness. The wife behaves this way not out of harm, not because she wants to annoy you, but because of a sharp change in hormonal levels. Once you understand this, it will be easier for you to endure her whims. Therefore, do not scold or reproach your wife, demanding to pull yourself together, but try to show condescension and tolerance.
Step 2
Do not skimp on kind words and signs of attention, inspire her that you still love her, even more than before, because now she is wearing your child under the heart! In no case, even as a joke, do not laugh at her blurry figure, changed gait, etc. Some women are so worried about this that they can bring themselves to real depression. It seems to them that due to their deteriorating appearance, husbands will no longer be able to treat them with their former love and passion. Therefore, tell your spouse more often that she is still loved and desired for you.
Step 3
If the upcoming birth is the first, an inexperienced woman can be very afraid. She is frightened by the pain that accompanies the childbirth process, and the thought whether everything will go well, whether something bad will happen to the baby. Try to delicately allay her concerns. Give her confidence that everything will be okay.
Step 4
Provide your wife with a nutritious and varied diet rich in vitamins and minerals. Go for walks with her more often. Do not let her lift weights. Be sure to take on at least some of the homework. In a word, behave as befits a caring and responsible man, the future father of a child!
