In the most cloudless relationship, there are things that should never be done. In particular, there is a whole list of topics that should not be touched upon if you do not want to offend a man.
Most inappropriate topics of conversation
First of all, you cannot criticize a man's mother. In your arguments with your mother-in-law, the man will always not be on your side. So do not "substitute" yourself.
If suddenly in your biography there were betrayals of former partners, you should not remember this with the current man. He will suspect you, feel fear and stress, and this can seriously ruin even the strongest relationships.
Don't talk about your ex-sex partners. If you have a question, answer and do not return to this topic.
Don't criticize your appearance. Men are extremely sensitive to criticism of this kind. A bad haircut, a baggy sweater, overly bright socks - none of this is worth his grudge. If you can fix something, silently and discreetly do it.
Never doubt its capabilities. It is very important for him that you support him in even the most strange endeavors. Nothing hurts a man like the doubts of a life partner. It doesn't matter that he is going to conquer Everest or fly to Mars. Most likely, this is a momentary decision, which he will soon give up and forget. But your doubts and criticism cannot be easily forgotten.
Do not stir up the dirty laundry of your friends in conversations with him, again, you should not talk about their betrayal, especially in a positive way. This can awaken fear and doubt in a man.
Do not threaten, do not reproach, do not remember others …
Never threaten to leave him. Control yourself during fights, because if you regularly threaten that you will leave him and find someone better, the man may believe that he is just a temporary option.
Do not reproach him with the fact that you earn more (if this, of course, is the case). It hurts a man a lot and can affect his self-esteem, and therefore your relationship.
Perhaps this list is not relevant for all men, but you should not check it empirically.
Do not start talking about what you want other men. In the presence of your man, do not imply or think that you would like to be in bed with someone else. Men are pretty good at feeling these thoughts and intentions. So, even turning the situation into a joke, you will seriously ruin his mood. And over the next hours or even days, you will have to convince your man of your own irresistibility.
