When a person is just going on a date, you can already understand whether it is worth going to a meeting or not. It so happens that even before the meeting it is clear: it is more correct to stay at home. There are several types of dates that you shouldn't agree to under any circumstances.
Man makes himself wait at the appointed time
When people are going on a date, they need to be punctual. Anything can happen in life (for example, problems with transport). It is impossible to foresee all the circumstances. Therefore, a slight drop is acceptable.
But if a man is more than 10 minutes late for a date, he should at least call, explain himself, and reschedule the meeting. If this does not happen, feel free to add the phone number to the blacklist.
Being late is disrespectful. This applies to both girls and men. But it so happened that such small weaknesses are forgiven to the fair sex. But the guys are not allowed to wait. A man who does not value your time, makes you wait, will never change and will dismiss you in the future. Better to classify you as a capricious person than self-esteem and mood will suffer.
Meeting with an "economical" gentleman
Some men are afraid that the woman, so to speak, will divorce them on a trip to a cafe. For this reason, they refuse to meet indoors. Some men adhere to the position not to invite to the first date in a cafe. Thus, they check the interlocutor's interest in themselves, and not in a free lunch in a cafe.
In some cases, kinks are also encountered. For example, some guys manage to invite a girl to the park in rain and stormy winds or at -20 ° С. It is clear that such a date should not take place.
Maybe there are girls who, for a snack in a cafe, are ready to go on dates with men they are not interested in. But if it is “hard” for a gentleman to pay for such a pastime, you should think about whether you need such a “copy”.
A date in a casually chosen place
The date should take place in a place where both will be comfortable, where you can have a good time. If, for example, you are offered to meet in some eatery with fast food, you should not agree to such a date.
Even if you love eating hamburgers or shawarma, there are much more comfortable places with affordable prices where you can enjoy the same dishes. But at the same time, there will be no roaring crowd of teenagers. If he doesn't care about these moments, and he is ready to spend a date in such a place (by the way, why is there, and not in the student cafeteria, why waste time on trifles), it is worth thinking hard about continuing to get to know this boyfriend.
The boyfriend is not very interested in meeting
Cavaliers meet with the position “I miss you, come”. At the same time, the man himself does not want to go anywhere, organize anything, does not show interest in any way. You should come to his area and, as much as he can, hang out with you in a cafe next to his house, which you don't need to go to. And it will split the bill in half.
Take a few transport stops to a coffee shop with delicious Hong Kong waffles? Yep, there is fast food next to the house in the mall. It's okay that you drive two hours before him one way, come. Go to the recreation center? Well, if you yourself agree and organize. And he will still grumble that you are pulling him in an unknown direction.
If the gentleman does not want to make a minimum of efforts to make the date take place, it is better not to have such a meeting. After all, most likely, such a man is not at all interested in you. If you leave him alone and just don’t call, write, and don’t take out anywhere, most likely there will be no dates at all.
Date with the "wrong" man
You meet a man who asks you out on a date. Friends insist that he is a handsome man, whom you definitely need to see to continue your acquaintance.
But he did not hook you very much. You can't even figure out what exactly is wrong with it. You just don't like a new acquaintance and that's it. For whatever reason. The height is not the same, the jacket is not beautiful, the ears are protruding. No matter. And this is already a reason not to go on a date.
When going on a date with an unfamiliar man, be careful and have escape routes. Be mentally and financially prepared to pay for yourself (and sometimes both). It's great if the man turns out to be decent. If not, at least you can walk away from the date with your head held high.
