A woman endowed with intelligence and worldly wisdom follows not only her actions, but also her words. It is better not to say some phrases ever, so as not to offend another person and not spoil the relationship with him.
In the process of communicating with your beloved man or with someone close to you, it is important to be as correct and tactful as possible. Some words can hurt the interlocutor, hurt his feelings. Psychologists name 11 basic phrases that an intelligent woman will never utter. If you want to leave a good impression about yourself and maintain a trusting relationship, you need to refuse such statements.
I told you, but you didn't believe
A woman shows her superiority over a man when she tells him: "I told you, but you did not believe." This phrase humiliates a person, reminds him that something did not work out for him or he made a mistake. Parents often say this when they are trying to teach their children something, but they still do everything in their own way and make mistakes. Even if such a situation has occurred, there is no need to blame the person. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. If a man was wrong, he himself will draw the necessary conclusions.
You look bad for your age
"You look bad for your age" - a phrase that should not be uttered in the process of communicating with both a man and a woman. Representatives of the fair sex perceive such words even more painfully. If you don't like the way a person looks, you can just keep silent.
I would in your place…
Wise and intelligent women never try to impose their point of view on anyone and indicate how to do the right thing. When a person authoritatively reports what he would do if he was in a certain situation, he does not give the interlocutor the opportunity to find ways to solve the problem himself. The only exceptions are cases when someone close asks for advice.
I don't understand how it was possible to meet with him
An intelligent woman understands that everyone has different tastes and needs. A close friend or relative can be greatly offended by telling her: "I don't understand how it was possible to meet with him." It is not worth condemning a person's choice, as it sounds humiliating. If a woman is told directly about how bad her ex was, her self-esteem drops.
Do you really love me?
An intelligent woman understands perfectly well that his actions, and not words, are important for assessing the attitude of a loved one. You shouldn't constantly ask him: "Do you love me?" Such words should be said by him himself and in those moments when he wants to say it. Better yet, his actions will tell about his feelings.
Did you pay attention to your mom again?
In a relationship with a man, it is very important not to speak badly about his mother, not to remind him that they communicate too much, that he cannot "tear himself away from his mother's skirt." This humiliates a loved one, spoils the relationship in a couple. If a man is too attached to his family, such reproaches once again remind how good it was to live with his parents.
You don't need anything and you go with the flow
If a woman does not want her chosen one to lose the desire to do something, you should not tell him: "You do not need anything and you go with the flow." Such a phrase insults and destroys initiative. At first, a person has an inner indignation, but then he calms down and even resigns himself to this state of affairs. He no longer has an incentive to achieve any goals, because his beloved has already recognized his failure.
Take an example from your friend
A wise woman will never give someone an example. This does not affect people at all and this is one of the most important laws of psychology. Reproaches that a friend has achieved something more and that you need to take an example from him only cause irritation.
This is probably stupid, but still I will say …
Communicating with people correctly is a real art. Wisdom lies in not only showing respect for the interlocutor during the conversation, but also not losing your authority. “Probably it’s very stupid, but I’ll still say…” - a phrase that definitely needs to be abandoned. Saying it, the woman seems to apologize in advance and says that she is afraid to seem stupid.
I try, but nothing works out for me
"I try, but I can't do anything" - a phrase that a child can utter, but not an experienced adult. If a woman is not happy with the result of her work, she should consider further tactics of behavior and, perhaps, change something, but not waste energy on excuses.
If you don't, I'll leave
Trying to manipulate a person's feelings is a bad idea. Often women declare to their beloved: "If you don't do what I want, I will leave." Such manipulation is doomed to failure. Even if a man agrees with the conditions put forward and follows the lead of his chosen one, he will not feel internal psychological comfort. After a while, the technique will cease to work and then the relationship can no longer be saved.
