Asking a girl on a first date - what could be easier? However, for many men, and especially for young and inexperienced guys, this is not an easy task, the fear of rejection paralyzes the desire to spend time in the company of the desired girl. So what is the right way to invite a girl, for example, to a cafe? There are several proven ways:
Instructions
Step 1
In person. This is the best way to invite, it is only important to choose the right time and place. If the invitation goes immediately after the acquaintance, then it would be more logical either to immediately agree on the next meeting, stipulating the day, time and place, or to invite the girl to a cafe on the same day. The advantages of this method lie in complete control over the situation, because when communicating in person, a man can easily understand by gestures and facial expressions when a girl is happy with the invitation, and when she is trying to find the reason for refusal.
Step 2
Telephone conversation. When communicating on the phone, it will be much more difficult to understand the true mood of a girl; often men themselves think of answers for their partner, thereby distorting the situation. When inviting for a date by phone, it is important to follow several rules: call at a convenient time for the girl, speak politely, avoid long pauses, tortured phrases and obsession, speak clearly and specifically and do not forget to clarify and make sure that the girl understood and accepted the invitation. If you are not very confident in yourself, then rehearse the upcoming conversation beforehand. Also, do not delay with the first call to invite you to a meeting, because the more time has passed since you met, the more likely the girl will simply forget you.
Step 3
Send SMS. Short text messages are not the best way to invite, because they can hardly convey the whole meaning. It is best to use SMS to just check the "soil" before making a call by sending a short message like "Are you free tomorrow evening?", "How long have you been in the cafe?" etc. The speed of the response and the wording of the phrase will make it clear whether the girl wants to keep up the conversation or she is busy with something. If the girl's response is positive, then you can safely call, since in this case, a refusal on her part is unlikely.
Step 4
Through the Internet. Twitter, "Vkontakte", "Odnoklassniki" and other virtual chats can sometimes be very helpful when making a date with a girl you like. Please note that on the first date, the photo posted on the Internet and the real face of the girl can be very different. It is also worth making a revision of your own photos posted on the Internet, so as not to disappoint the girl on the first date. They will help to make an original appointment and various video letters with invitations, which, with the help of a treasure map, glowing booklets or beautiful postcards, will be able to interest and not leave indifferent your passion. Remember, no matter how you invite a girl to a cafe, the main goal should be to get mutual pleasure from communication.
