Many women ask themselves the same question: how to find a good man and what needs to be done for this? Unfortunately, there is no definite answer here. It all depends on who you are looking for …
Instructions
Step 1
Still dreaming of finding your only man to build a family with? Alas, fate is not favorable to everyone, and many, already in the middle of their life, lose hope of meeting their soul mate. But you need to keep looking! Listen to the voice of your heart, but at the same time be guided by the arguments of reason.
Step 2
Give up fantasy. Some women unconsciously form in their thoughts the image of an ideal man, unaware that this is a dangerous path that can lead to loneliness. In reality, a fictional image may simply not exist. Therefore, the first step towards your dream is to abandon fantasies. Remember, in the world around you, there are no ideal men, like ideal people. They all have their flaws, small or big.
Step 3
Look around. True love can be found anywhere. Your chosen one may even be a neighbor to whom you have never paid attention, but who has been fascinated by you for a long time.
Step 4
Give your man a chance to prove himself. When starting out with someone, you shouldn't end the relationship or abandon it just because the man doesn't meet any of your criteria. Smart, beautiful, purposeful girls often remain alone only because they make increased demands on the chosen ones. This does not mean that you should rush at every first comer. Love at first sight is possible, but it is rare, most often a person begins to like after a while. It even happens that the one and only becomes one who at first glance did not make any impression on you.
Step 5
Always remember that relationships are hard work, and in order to achieve the perfect union as a result, both need to work tirelessly on it.
Step 6
In pursuit of your dream, be careful. Do not rush from one extreme to another. The principle of "being with anyone, just not alone" will not lead you to the long-awaited happiness. It is better to spend many years looking for your soul mate than to wake up every morning in the arms of an unloved person. You can meet your love around every turn! Remember this always and never give up hope.
