Before inviting a girl to date, you need to do a little preparatory work. So your chances of a happy outcome will be much higher, and you will not have to experience rejection.
Preparatory stage - we get to know the girl better
Ideal if you know the subject of your adoration and worship since kindergarten. In this case, willingly or unwillingly, you already have the basic primary information about her habits, preferences, character traits, strengths and weaknesses. With this knowledge, you will be able to behave so as not to get into difficult situations.
But if the girl is practically unfamiliar to you, you need to try to find out as much as possible about her before the first date. Otherwise, deciding to make a favorable impression on her and starting to recite Blok by heart, you may fall into the category of "bores" in her eyes, since the pinnacle of poetry for her is the work of Timothy. Therefore, it is worth finding out her interests and preferences, then it will be much easier to conquer her.
Chat with those who know her well at work, study, who communicate with her constantly. Try to find common interests, no matter which ones: animals, cooking, sports or music. If you share her views, she will feel sympathy for you on a subconscious level.
Don't forget to find out which colors she prefers and which candies she loves the most. On the one hand, this will allow you to pleasantly surprise her once again, and on the other hand, it will not embarrass her if she does not eat sweets at all or is allergic to some flowers.
Main stage - forward to victory
Having found out all the useful information about the girl you like, you can proceed to active actions. First, you need to enter her social circle, mutual friends or similar interests will help you with this. For example, sign up for the same club where she goes. This will give you the opportunity to talk to her and invite her out on a date during the conversation.
Encourage her to walk after a class or walk home after a party. At this time, you can show her the similarity of your thoughts, your originality and charm. If the first date was successful, then build on your success.
Further events can take place according to a well-known scenario: cinema, cafes, flowers, walks under the moon, etc. Ideally, there should be a "zest" in your meetings. These are unexpected and pleasant surprises that will charm and win the heart of your lady.
After 2-3 such dates, you can move on to the most important question. But saying "let's date" bluntly isn't the best tactic. Better tell her a fiery speech, how pleasant it is for you to spend time with her, and then ask to be your girlfriend. You can kneel down to imitate a sentence. But do not forget that not everyone will appreciate such a gesture and it is worth choosing an option according to the girl's preferences.
