Sometimes the relationship with your beloved becomes very confusing. More and more often you ask yourself if this is the person with whom you would like to share your life. To break up with a man, you need to stop having strong feelings for him. How can this be done?
Instructions
Step 1
To understand if you need your current relationship, ask yourself a few of the following questions. When answering, do not embellish the situation, be honest. Having understood yourself, you will understand how to get rid of emotions that prevent you from living in peace.
Step 2
If there is a need to stop loving a person, there is probably a good reason for this, but it is not always realized. Often, such a reason is a deep resentment, neglect, rudeness on the part of a man or his unwillingness to allow you to realize yourself not only in a relationship with him. Or maybe you are tired of his jealousy?
Step 3
Decide what you expect from a relationship with this person. What were your initial plans? Perhaps you dreamed of getting married, but forgot about your intentions, because the man did not want to get married? Ask yourself if you are living someone else's life, leaving your own aspirations aside.
Step 4
Think about what he is looking for in a relationship with you. Perhaps you are just a fallback for him, is it worth putting up with this state of affairs? Are you satisfied with the status of a close friend, or have you just put up with it for lack of anything better? Don't be afraid to admit to yourself that you are imperfect and that you allow him too much. But this is not a reason to ignore your interests.
Step 5
Love is the most beautiful feeling on earth. If you want to get rid of it, think about whether there is some dependence behind this concept, a painful feeling of attachment, or just a fear of loneliness? In such a situation, it will not be superfluous to consult a psychologist - sometimes it can be difficult to sort out your own confused emotions.
Step 6
Does the one you love make you suffer? Let him know about it. He may not fully understand what is hurting you. Give him a chance to make you happy by being honest. If verbal admonitions have gone nowhere, allow yourself to be free from such relationships. One day you will definitely meet true love, take care of yourself for it.
