Sometimes it is very difficult to understand how he really treats you? What is behind his interest - simple politeness or something more? Are you really only friends with him or is he looking forward to a romantic relationship? Some men find it easy to interact with women, while others are shy and shy. However, if you look closely, you can see clear signs of his true attitude towards you.
Instructions
Step 1
Is he really listening to you? Does he mention in the conversation what you said to him earlier? Does he remember any small details of your stories about you, your family, your work? If so, that's a great sign!
Step 2
Notice if he gets distracted by other things when he spends time with you? Does she readily respond to phone calls, conversations with friends, flirting with pretty waitresses? If he focuses on you more than his business calls, he really likes you.
Step 3
Listen to if he says "we" instead of "I" or vice versa. If he often says "we", it means that he is thus trying to figure out your reaction to the fact that you are a couple. If he says "I" even when it comes to your joint actions, it makes sense to look for someone more interested in you.
Step 4
Does he avoid doing uninteresting or traditionally female affairs with you? If he's willing to spend a few hours in the store while you try on dresses, he's definitely in love with you.
Step 5
Did he introduce you to his friends? Men usually do not introduce girls into their company if they are only planning a light flirtation or a short affair with them. If he brings you to his company, then he wants you to become a part of his life.
Step 6
If he remembers not only the date of your birth, but also the day you met, and invites you on this day to some special place, do not hesitate - he loves you. For men, remembering some unofficial dates is most often, for inexplicable reasons, extremely difficult.
Step 7
Pay attention to how often he calls you or sends you SMS. If he is in love, he will strive, as often as possible, to talk to you. If he does not have time to talk or does not like to talk on the phone at all, he will write you at least short messages to show what he thinks of you.
Step 8
Ask yourself - does he value your opinion? Do you consult with you on any issues? Should I share any experiences? If he listens to you and is not afraid to seek advice, then he really respects you and trusts you.
Step 9
Is he making an effort to be with you? Does your schedule change because of you? Are you ready to give up the usual routine of things in order to adapt to you? If daily workout is more important to him than a romantic walk with you, this is a bad sign.
Step 10
Does he show feelings in public? If he is gentle and caring with you in the presence of close friends, then you are "serious."
