Many girls perceive the guy's jealousy as a pleasant addition to the expression of his feelings - he is jealous, so he loves. There is some truth in this statement, but only very insignificant, since jealousy is a destructive and destructive feeling.
The origins of jealousy are in their own insecurity - the guy is afraid that he is not good enough for the girl, he is constantly afraid and waits for her to leave him. These emotions do not always manifest themselves clearly, often such beliefs are formed at the subconscious level, making it difficult for a person to build relationships. Deciding how to deal with jealousy can only be done by trying to understand the guy's motives. Jealousy is an absolutely normal and adequate response to a girl's unworthy behavior - she can behave defiantly, flirt with other guys, spend a lot of time in the company of other fans, etc. Therefore, if your relationship has already reached the level of serious, then accept the fact that from now on you should show all your sexuality and relaxedness only to him. Do not confuse friendly feelings with cheeky behavior; you need to fight jealous with their own weapon - try to behave in the same way, just become its mirror image. It is likely that, having been in the image of the "victim of a jealous woman," he will reconsider his behavior and correct himself. You can hint to him that such a relationship is not what you expected when you started dating him. If he is unable to cope with his problem, then offer help - a heart-to-heart talk, role-playing games, a psychologist's consultation. During bouts of jealousy, behave calmly and indifferently, because your response in the form of exculpatory speeches is exactly what he expects. Help your loved one overcome self-doubt, prove to him that for you he is the best and most desirable. It is quite another matter when a guy is jealous for no reason - he is just a pathological owner who cannot allow the loss of a loved one. Such people can be dangerous, especially if jealousy is combined with an explosive character - and they are not far from assault. If you notice even the slightest signs that the guy is difficult to control himself, or there have already been precedents, then immediately leave him. And this must be done carefully, without striking the pride with loud scandals and tantrums. It is best to enlist the support of strong friends, a brother or father, who, in which case, can help you and scare the jealous person.
