People break up quite often. Sometimes parting takes place calmly and on the initiative of both parties. And it so happens that you broke up somehow badly, wrong. Perhaps the girl dumped you herself. Or you her. But in any case, you want to return it and do not know where to start. In this case, follow the instructions below.
Instructions
Step 1
Start by letting all your emotions out. Surely if you want to return the girl, then she means a lot to you. Perhaps you even love her, love her very much, which means that you are in great pain. Well, let all your pain come out. Don't be afraid to cry if you feel like crying, don't be afraid to scream if you feel like screaming. Perhaps you want to smoke or get drunk? Do it.
Step 2
If you need to speak out, then call your best friend, and if you do not want to share your pain with anyone, then just speak out into the void. Write your story on paper and burn it. The main thing is not to keep anything to yourself.
Step 3
Spend a couple of days on this kind of issue, and then do some hard physical work. Make a renovation if you like, or go to the gym. The main thing is that you get tired to the limit and, going to bed, immediately fall asleep and not think about anything. It is worth spending a couple of weeks in this mode.
Step 4
Now that you've calmed down a bit, just sit down and think it over. Think back to your relationship and evaluate it sensibly, without emotion. Remember everything - not only the good, but also the bad.
Step 5
Try to understand yourself and understand why it turned out that you broke up. Perhaps you are just tired of each other, but now, having realized how much you need each other, you have already rested and you can try to start all over again.
Step 6
Under no circumstances tell the girl that you want her back. Do not complain to her or humiliate yourself in front of her. Do not lose your dignity, because the girl will definitely not want to return to the rag. After some time, start communicating with her, establish a friendly contact, but do not say frankly that you would not mind starting all over again.
Step 7
To get started, just set a date and place for her to talk. Not about relationships, but about some completely abstract topics. Let the girl start trusting you again. If your relationship was serious and long-term, then feelings will not be easily erased from the heart.
Step 8
At the right time, hint to the girl that you don't mind starting over. It might be worth saying that you were looking for someone else who would be better, but did not find. Say that all these others are nothing compared to her. Tell her how dear she is to you. Most likely, she will want to return to you. Good luck and love! Don't lose loved ones.
