Masturbation (masturbation) - stimulation of one's own genitals in order to achieve sexual satisfaction. Usually it is done by men and women who do not have a permanent sexual partner, but this often develops into a habit that continues after marriage.
Some people argue that masturbation during marriage is comparable to cheating on a spouse, since it is believed that those who love each other and are ready to devote all of themselves to their loved one, including in terms of sex, enter into marriage. If a man masturbates, the woman may feel resentful that he doesn't want her enough, and vice versa. Thus, masturbation often becomes the cause of family strife, lack of agreement between husband and wife.
If you find it difficult to get rid of the habit of masturbating, try asking your spouse to fulfill your fantasies that you imagine during masturbation, if, of course, this is realistic.
In certain circles, it is believed that masturbation is not something forbidden and shameful during marriage. It is part of the sex life of both men and women. A person can experience pleasure not only from ordinary sex, but from self-satisfaction, and from a medical point of view, this is absolutely normal. In addition, some couples even practice mutual masturbation as a way to diversify their sex lives.
As statistics show, more lively and passionate unions are observed in those families where the husband or wife masturbates in secret from their partner. For some, this is a habit that has survived from adolescence, while for others it is an opportunity to “take time out” and bring something new into their lives. One way or another, it really helps to distract from the monotony of family life and to maintain passion in the future already in sex between husband and wife, to avoid cheating and sex "on the side".
Sometimes masturbation is the only way to relieve the accumulated sexual tension. Some men or women have a stronger need for sex, and the usual daily intimate relationship may not be enough to satisfy their desire. For example, a man or woman may masturbate before or after sex to get rid of the remnants of their desire.
You should not restrict your spouse or spouse in intimacy, otherwise he or she will certainly engage in masturbation.
There are also families in which the spouses are unable to provide each other with the desired satisfaction in sex, but do not consider this to be the reason for the termination of the marriage. Sometimes this happens even in connection with deviations in the health of a man or woman. In this case, masturbation comes to the fore in sexual life as a substitute for standard sex.
Masturbation has a negative effect on marriage if a person becomes obsessed with it and, at any opportunity, tries to retire to engage in masturbation. Because of this, his professional success deteriorates, he begins to pay insufficient attention to his soul mate, children, household chores, etc. In this case, the right decision would be to part with the bad habit on your own or with the help of a qualified psychologist.
