It often happens that two loving people cannot agree on a particular issue, and this inevitably leads to a quarrel. In order to build relationships with your loved one, you need to learn to find compromises.
Instructions
Step 1
Learn the art of keeping silent when you most want to argue. Unnecessary arguments destroy relationships. Believe me, silence is sometimes better than unnecessary words. If you feel a lot of anger or anger in yourself, it is best to postpone any discussion until another time. In general, try to be very careful about what and when you say. Harsh words sometimes leave deep wounds and are not forgotten over the years.
Step 2
If the injured party is you, learn to forgive and not remember the bad, if the person is really dear to you. Follow the two-step forgiveness technique. First, make a verbal promise to forgive, and then move on to the more difficult and time-consuming forgetting itself. Remember that anyone can make a mistake, but everyone deserves a second chance.
Step 3
Try not to point out to your partner any of his minor mistakes and shortcomings, dissatisfaction with which has accumulated in you. This list of negative things is very destructive and interferes with dialogue. Learn to see the positive aspects in people first of all. To do this, you need to be an open and benevolent person, listen carefully to your partner, show him your love and care.
Step 4
Be happy yourself first of all. Perhaps you have a hobby that makes you happy. Do what you love in your free time and don't be afraid to seem selfish. Each person should have their own life. Only a happy person can give happiness to another. Your partner will follow your example. Remember that mostly negative emotions and situations are attracted to unhappy people.
