You have a beloved friend with whom you spend a lot of time, share your joys and sorrows, only with her you can completely relax and escape from the hustle and bustle of modern life. But at one point, you notice that the relationship is not as good as it was before. Perhaps there was a quarrel between you, or maybe you just started to move away from each other, since she or you have some other interests. But at the same time, you do not want to lose it at all.
Instructions
Step 1
The best thing to do in a situation like this is to just talk frankly with your friend. Perhaps you offended her in some way, but you yourself did not notice it, and the conversation will help to find out. And, perhaps, she just now has so many things to do that there is not enough time for something else. Take the initiative in communication, even if your meetings are not as frequent as before, but interesting and memorable.
Step 2
If the reason for the broken relationship was your quarrel, then take the first step towards reconciliation, especially if you were wrong. Many people are afraid to be the first to put up, because they believe that by doing so they show their weakness, spinelessness, etc. But think what is more important to you: your pride or your girlfriend?
Step 3
If you decide to have a frank conversation, then conduct it in a gentle, polite manner. Tell us about how you lack communication with your friend, how you are worried about a disagreement, that you would like to return the relationship to its former course. But in any case, do not stoop to rudeness, do not blame your friend, even if there is her fault, do not remember old grievances. By doing this, you will only further aggravate the situation. All claims must be made correctly and without malice.
Step 4
If you see that a friend does not make contact, then do not press on her, give her time to cool down and rethink the situation. After a while, try to improve relations again, and perhaps she herself will try to do it with you, only in this case do not push her away, motivating her by saying that she should have been reconciled before.
Step 5
Ask your mutual friends for help. They are also likely to feel embarrassed that you are not communicating with your best friend, as this affects the relationship in the company as a whole. Maybe in this situation it will be easier for your friend to listen to the opinions of outsiders than to yours, since she is offended at you.
Step 6
Think about it, is it worth restoring a relationship with a friend at all? Previously, you had many common interests, topics of conversation, but over time, all people change to one degree or another. Maybe you yourself did not notice how you and your friend became completely strangers to each other? Family, life, work have changed your interests and hobbies. Then no matter how hard you try, unfortunately, you will not be able to return the old relationship. You can only try to keep the relationship on a friendly level, but you should not count on anything more.
