Why is it so difficult for young guys to get to know older women? The fact is that when mature women meet young gentlemen, they believe that there is no point in wasting their time and energy on relationships that, in their opinion, have no future.
Instructions
Step 1
To meet a woman, you have to look good. You will hardly be interested in a person if you are dressed in ripped jeans and a wrinkled T-shirt. This is not to say that you should wear an expensive suit and tie. It is important to have a neat appearance here. Don't try to look older with clothes - wear what works for you.
Step 2
Be smart and show seriousness in your intentions. If an adult woman sees your determination, good sense of humor, interest, she will definitely want to get to know you better. Just walk up to her, compliment her, charm her. Be confident, decisive. So, a woman will see a man in you, and not a boy who is insecure. An adult woman has probably heard in her life a huge number of compliments, banal and uninteresting. Get her interested in your originality. In advance, come up with beautiful and unusual compliments that will surely charm the lady. Sincerely admire her intelligence, beauty, life views.
Step 3
Don't overdo it. An adult woman will immediately recognize the falsity and no longer want to continue dating. Don't tell her about your love affairs or your ex-girlfriend. You don't want the lady to mistake you for a frivolous youth? Start conversations on serious topics, tell her about serious plans for the future, listen to her carefully without interrupting.
Step 4
If you see that the woman is also interested in you, ask her out on a date. It should take place in a relaxed atmosphere. If your companion is funny and mischievous, bring her to an amusement park. Surely none of her peers invited her to this place. So, she will feel like a young girl. If the woman is serious, go out on a date at a nice restaurant, a movie, or any other similar place, but never take her on a carousel ride. There should be a different approach to such a lady.
Step 5
Show your generosity. There is no need to pour money left and right, just don’t skimp on the institution where you will spend the evening. Even if it is an inexpensive cafe, you must make it clear to the woman that she can order any dish she likes. In this way, you show that you do not mind the money for it.
