One of the main mistakes in the relationship between a man and a woman is not knowing who should be the first to reach out for a handshake. By following simple rules of etiquette, you will never be embarrassed either in business or in everyday life.
Greeting is an integral part of everyday life, so you need to know the simple rules of etiquette that apply to all areas of communication.
General rules
• Remember that it is impolite to smoke a cigarette or keep your hands in your pockets when you greet each other.
• Be sure to say the greeting clearly and distinctly while smiling at the other person.
• Do not attract the attention of passers-by if the meeting is taking place on the street. Be more discreet.
• Both left-handers and right-handers greet with their right hand.
Who should be the first to greet?
A man must be the first to greet a woman who enters the room. If he is sitting at this moment, then he needs to stand up. Also, a male boss should greet his subordinate first, despite the fact that, according to business etiquette, the employee is the first to greet the boss - this rule applies only to men.
Remember: a woman or an older woman is the first to shake hands.
How men and women greet
When meeting on the street, a man should lift his hat and nod to a girl walking towards him. Such a form of greeting as a kiss of the hand is a thing of the past - a rather friendly nod of the head. But girls should remember: it is bad form to remove your hand when kissing.
It is worth remembering that, according to the rules of etiquette, the hostess of the house must shake hands with all the guests who are present at the evening today. There are no exceptions to this rule: both the stranger and the guest with whom the girl is in a quarrel, she should greet with the same kindness.
Hugs when they meet are a thing of the past - they remained in the relationship of men who can pat each other on the shoulder. Otherwise, such a gesture is appropriate only with close friends or relatives.
Business etiquette
Business etiquette does not divide partners by gender, there are general rules for everyone. Business etiquette implies that the first to shake hands should be the one who is older in status or age. But, in the event that it is necessary to introduce your partner to other colleagues, men are introduced to the ladies first.
Do not forget to give your first and last name, as well as hold out a business card with your contact information - this is part of business etiquette.
Simple rules of etiquette, including features of communication for men and women, will help you in any situation to show respect for another person and interest in continuing communication.
