Sometimes it is impossible to tell love from falling in love. At the beginning of a relationship, almost everyone thinks that this particular person is the only love for the rest of their lives. However, time passes, and the intensity of feelings gradually decreases, and then suddenly suddenly disappears without a trace. It is important to understand where falling in love ends and true strong love begins.
Falling in love is not the same as falling in love
The opinions of psychologists differ, however, it is generally accepted that the state of falling in love is similar to illness or obsession. A man in love is capable of meaningless actions, and much is forgiven him. Carried away by feelings, he wants to fully possess the object of his adoration. Often times, people fall into the trap of their own passions and confuse true feelings with a fleeting outburst of violent emotions.
Falling in love inspires and gives a feeling of euphoria, which will soon be replaced by disappointment and melancholy. It is a well-known fact that people in love suffer from frequent mood swings and become hostages of their passions and desires.
Love, on the other hand, implies a completely different approach. A loving person will never commit madness. Undoubtedly, outwardly, passion looks much more attractive. It is impossible to get a deep feeling for a person after several meetings. Unfortunately, there is no "love at first sight". Possible great sympathy, crazy attraction, passion, obsession - anything, but not true love. It takes a long way to create a true, deep feeling.
When true love is born
The main difference between falling in love and love is that a man in love thinks first of all about himself, and a loving one about his partner.
A long and strong relationship cannot be based on falling in love. In love, people see all the shortcomings of each other and accept their loved ones as they are, take care of them, support them.
True love requires materialization. People give each other gifts, make pleasant surprises, delight their loved ones, and finally have children.
If one is bad, then the other half suffers with him, moments of happiness are also experienced together. It so happens that over time, people become even outwardly similar to each other, and sometimes they think the same way. People live in an atmosphere of complete trust and confidence in their own feelings.
Over time, love disappears and is replaced by disappointment, and love over the years, on the contrary, becomes even stronger and stronger.
It happens that passion is transformed over time into love, when people get to know each other better. We can say that falling in love is only the first step, a small part of a long path called "True Love", and not everyone is destined to go through it.
