The wife is a beautiful woman, a clever woman, a wonderful hostess, a sweetest creature, and her husband meets another. Sound familiar? The reasons for what is happening must be sought in the field of relationships between spouses, in the science of the soul - psychology.
Instructions
Step 1
Choosing a wife, men, like women, strive to find a certain ideal that would correspond to their own ideas. At the stage of love, no flaws can stop the desire to be together. And any advice, even from the closest people, if not taken with hostility, is simply ignored. The human mind seems to be turned off. As a result, after a while, the man sees in front of him not an angel, not the ideal that he was not so long ago ready to carry in his arms. The principle of a family boat that crashed into everyday life begins to work in full. When meeting his future wife, a man sees a girl in full war paint, in the best clothes, rejoices at the opportunity to do something pleasant for her, etc. But after the wedding, everything changes dramatically, and every woman knows how to avoid this, if she thinks about it a little.
Step 2
Another main reason for the estrangement of a spouse is a mismatch in the values of the spouses. The wife, performing thousands of household chores, expects the husband to do his own. However, men often believe that they know better when to carry out a particular household task. And the wife's desire to quickly put, for example, the apartment in order, is perceived as an infringement of personal rights. Therefore, the three times repeated request is perceived by them not as caring for the family, but as “eating the brain”. There is no need to repeat the same request three times - it is much easier to become a "bore" and a "saw" than to get rid of it. Just let go of the situation, maybe even wait a week or two, but in the end you will leave your husband's sense of self-worth unaffected. That is, you will remain in the eyes of your husband a woman who values her husband more than a screw that has fallen out of the wall. By doing this constantly, you will be able to correctly prioritize, then the husband begins to understand that the most important value for him is you. And the desire to find someone better will not arise.
Step 3
The third in order, but the first in importance is not "bed" at all, but the absence of psychological contact. Recall what was most intimate between you both during the courtship phase. If you could not remember anything, this happens very often, which means that you have serious work ahead of you. Analyze your husband's hobbies and try to choose something that is closest to you. And now all that remains is to love it, and really. For example, your husband does not miss a single football match, but you still perceive it as a waste of time. At the same time, you do not hate football and even know which team your husband is rooting for. The matter is small, understand the rules and buy yourself and your husband tickets for the season's most important match for the team for which your husband is rooting. And a few weeks of honeymoon after the match are guaranteed for you.
