Currently, smoking is not fashionable, and smoking girls look very ugly, they also do not always attract the attention of the opposite sex. But if the girl still smokes, then you can try to persuade her to quit.
Instructions
Step 1
Of course, this is not always easy to do. But if you have a big enough influence on the girl, i.e. are a very close person, then try to calmly and clearly explain what is wrong with smoking. However, it all depends on the girl's desire: if she does not want to quit and does not understand at all why to give up this habit, then you can hardly do anything. She has such a character.
Step 2
First, give some common examples that may slightly influence the decision: a girl with a cigarette looks ugly and gives the impression of a frivolous girl, perhaps even easily accessible. And if it also “smokes like a locomotive”, it causes disgust. The girl should smell like a pleasant perfume, and not carry tobacco smoke. Offer gum before kissing. But be careful! It might offend her. Give an argument that is unlikely to leave her indifferent: say that girls who start smoking early and do it quite often age faster (in terms of appearance). That there is a chance at 40 to look like 55, or even more. And hardly anyone wants this. A smile with yellow teeth will not evoke positive emotions.
Step 3
Of course, smoking is bad for your health. It can have very bad consequences. But, saying this to a girl, be sure to add that you care about her health and do not want your beloved to have any problems. Do not forget to remind that smoking harms not only her, but also those around her, and the unborn child. Take to the museum, where there are children who were born from smoking mothers. If she doesn't want someone like that, then she will definitely think about it.
Step 4
When talking about this bad habit, never press on the girl or shout. Nothing good will come of it. Explain your point of view calmly and clearly enough, and if the girl really loves you and listens to your opinion, then she will obey. Don't try to get her to quit smoking overnight. This habit is not easy to get rid of, and you must understand this. Try to drive her often to places where people do not smoke. Then the need for cigarettes will be less. If no means help, then set a condition for her that you will not do what she does not like about you, and she will not smoke. Or for "non-smoking days" give her bonuses, for example, in the form of additional gifts that she has been dreaming of for so long. Find something interesting for her that smoking interferes: sports, vocals, etc.
Step 5
Let her read books on how to quit smoking, enroll her in special courses, etc. It helps some. But remember one thing: if the girl does not want to quit smoking, then you will not be able to persuade her, no matter how hard you try. And if a girl really values you and she is not indifferent to your opinion, then she will do everything to please you, and even quit smoking.
