We accept our loved ones as they are. However, some of the shortcomings are difficult to come to terms with. These disadvantages include smoking. If you don't like that your boyfriend is not going to give up cigarettes, try convincing him that it is necessary to do so.
Necessary
- - nicotine patch;
- - Electronic Cigarette;
- - chewing gum with nicotine content.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, tell him that it is simply unpleasant for you to be around a person who smells of tobacco. For a non-smoker, cigarette smoke can really be a big problem, especially if no one else smokes in the environment. Include more intimate moments as well. It is no secret that smoking leads to bad breath. Explain that it would be much more pleasant for you to kiss him if his breath was fresh.
Step 2
Don't force the guy to quit smoking. Your task is to convince him to get rid of the bad habit, and not to antagonize him. Try to help your half by offering to buy chewing gum or nicotine patch. Such products are not harmful to health, but they are great at helping to cope with the urge to smoke. An excellent alternative for someone trying to quit smoking is an electronic cigarette.
Step 3
Try to explain to him what smoking can lead to. The diseases that this habit causes are not fictional. Pneumonia, lung cancer, heart attacks, atherosclerosis - these and many other ailments can be caused by cigarettes. Even if it is difficult for your man to make him think about his health, he will certainly not be indifferent to the fact that smoking greatly increases the risk of impotence. The appearance of a smoker is also significantly different from a person who leads a healthy lifestyle. Yellow teeth, the appearance of wrinkles even in youth. Ask your boyfriend if he really wants all of this.
Step 4
Explain to your half that smoking affects you too. It has long been proven that passive smokers put their health at an equal risk. They may also develop all of the above ailments. If your health is dear to a guy, he will try to reconsider his views on this bad habit. Explain to him that your primary concern is your overall health and the health of your future children. Try to make him understand that you are not pushing him away, but on the contrary, become closer and ready to help.
