A big age difference is quite common when it comes to a young girl and a mature man. However, it also happens the other way around - more and more women are found in men much younger than themselves and even marry them. People react to this in different ways, while the young partners themselves have their own views on the situation.
The difference in age of ten to fifteen years or more is considered significant. Each case when a young man meets a woman much older is individual. Each couple has their own passions and motives, their own feelings. But in general, there are several basic scenarios for such a relationship.
Sometimes people may not even be aware of why they are attracted to this or that person.
It's worth noting that the motivation differs when people meet without serious commitment and when they decide to tie the knot. So, one of the classic situations is considered to be when a guy of 18-20 years old meets a girl or woman several years older and gets with her the first experience of sexual and romantic relationships. Guys under the age of 25 (on average) sometimes like to date women in their 30s and 40s, since during these intervals the sexual needs of both are approximately the same. It is believed that in men, the peak of sexual activity occurs at the age of 18-25, and in women, sexuality fully flourishes only by the age of 30. For this reason, intimate relationships with peers may not always satisfy men and women. Young guys can also be attracted by a woman's relaxedness and confidence, her understanding of her desires, knowledge of her body, more daring behavior and fewer inhibitions than young girls.
Psychologically, young men in older women can be attracted by different things, it all depends on the man himself. If a guy matured early, achieved success and has many interests, he may not be interested in girls of the same age, if he is not lucky enough to find the same developed girl. And then he will look for an outlet in an older woman with whom he will have something to talk about.
Another option is an economic guy who has a desire to start a family and have children. Not every young girl is ready for this. In this case, the guy can get along with an older woman, perhaps with one who already has a child. By the way she behaves with her child, you can understand what kind of mother she is. In such a pair, partners will be united by common plans, the ability to organize life, psychological comfort and common life values.
Another type of guys are those who, on the contrary, are not yet ripe for responsibility or are used to being guided by an authoritative mother. Such a guy wants to be taken care of by a woman, to some extent maternal, and he may be comfortable in everyday life that she performs the so-called female duties - she cooks for him, does laundry and does not demand too much. It also happens that a professionally successful woman helps a young lover with work or in starting a business, gives him wise life advice, and charges him with self-confidence.
If a young man is not yet ready to become a father, he can be comfortable with a woman who already has a child from another man and does not require children from him.
A separate category is creative people or those who are united by some common interest, business, hobby or vocation. It can be music, and spiritual practices, and passion for travel, extreme sports. When a person completely devotes himself to some business and has little free time, it is sometimes difficult for him to build harmonious relationships and meet the understanding of a partner. In this case, an alliance with a person with a similar hobby can be a good way out, and age is not important here. In such a pair, a young man can appreciate a woman as a person and for the fact that she took place in a field that is interesting to him. For example, a musician might admire a singer.
