If a girl watches TV shows all her free time, this negatively affects the relationship. She spends time not on useful activities, but on stories that are created for retirees. It is necessary to change her life, to bring something new and exciting into her.
Soap operas enter the lives of those who have few real-life events. People observe the experience of the heroes, admire their adventures, but at the same time they miss everything that can happen in their life. But do not blame them, often they simply have nothing to do.
Prohibition or replacement
Banning a person from watching movies or denying him access to the Internet or TV will not do anything good. Most likely, there will be scandals in this regard, serious resentment and unnecessary anxiety. Aggression rarely helps resolve issues, so you need to look for soft solutions. Pressure, blackmail and demands may work for a while, but in the long run, it won't work.
Psychologists say that one should not cancel something, but look for a replacement. For example, if you invite her to a restaurant, will she refuse the movie? It is important to understand that a one-time trip will not give a result, since the next day the series will continue. She needs to keep her busy for several days, or preferably weeks or months in a row, so that the plots are not so interesting to her. Come up with adventures that will captivate her more than stories on TV, make her life more exciting than the series. And you don't need to think that it is difficult, it is only important to show your imagination.
How to make life brighter
Start by paying attention to yourself: what do you do when she watches TV? Perhaps you are playing games at this time or sitting on social networks, and she may not like it either. Make the decision to spend time together and look for hobbies that will interest her. For example, start learning a new sport. It can be skiing or rollerblading, cycling, swimming. When offering such leisure activities, emphasize that you will do it together.
If the sport doesn't work, start looking for a shared hobby. It can be anything from embroidery to cutting with a jigsaw. But it is better not collecting, but something that requires the application of effort. Self-development is a very interesting activity, and going together to achieve goals can be very exciting. Find an idea and strive to implement it together, perhaps in a couple of years it will bring you millions.
Start visiting interesting places in your city. Not necessarily expensive establishments, you can also ordinary exhibitions, museums, parks and squares. Even the sunset over the river, which is completely free, can be a spectacular sight. There can be many options for entertainment, connect your friends so that they help pull the girl out of the house, distract from the TV series. And in a couple of months you will notice that active rest and meetings with you will be much more pleasant for her in the company of TV.
