Even in the happiest and strongest marriage, conflicts and misunderstandings sometimes arise. Some of them may distance spouses so far from each other that reconciliation will seem impossible. In such a situation, a lot depends on the man.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to communicate more. This can be very difficult at first, especially if relationship problems have been observed for a long time. To begin with, when you come home from work in the evening, ask how your wife's day went, and be ready to listen. Don't be upset if she isn't talkative at first. After all, if earlier you did not show interest in such things, now it is unusual for her. If she is not in the mood to share her feelings, do so by talking about your day.
Step 2
Appreciate her. Notice what she does around the house, praise for it. Don't forget to thank for the delicious dinner, etc. Don't feel like it's unnecessary just because she doesn't thank you for working for the family.
Step 3
Be attentive to her. A woman often performs a lot of duties both at work and at home. She may feel unwell and emotionally difficult. Try to notice it. Instead of expressing resentment that she didn't do something, try to do it for her. If you see that your wife is feeling bad, let her rest and do the necessary work yourself. She will not be able to remain indifferent to such participation.
Step 4
Offer to discuss the problems. If this is not done, they will gradually accumulate and depress. Agree that before you go to bed, you will respectfully and gently share how your feelings have been touched during the day. But talk only about what is worthy of attention and do not get hung up on trifles.
Step 5
Express love with touch. While words are important to women, gentle expressions of affection are also essential. Hug her, kiss her, touch her carefully so that she feels calm and confident. For some women, this is so important that they cannot find a place for themselves if their husband does not satisfy their need for touch.
Step 6
Apologize for mistakes. Some men never apologize because they consider it humiliation. But if you admit that you were wrong, then this will elevate you in the eyes of your wife, and from this her respect for you will only increase.
