After marriage, men and women sometimes begin to cool off to each other. If before they constantly talked about their feelings, now declarations of love are becoming a rarity.
Why shouldn't you tell your husband about love too often?
Some people believe that if you are legally married to your significant other, you should not tell her about your love too often. This is due to the fact that any words, even the most gentle and affectionate, can get bored over time. Countless love vows are addictive, so over time they stop impressing a person. You will simply say this phrase as calmly as “good morning”. In response, you will receive words of reciprocity, but they will be spoken as a habit, the man will not put special trepidation and significance in them.
In addition, a representative of the stronger sex, one hundred percent confident in your sincere feeling, can feel power over you and begin to use his privileged position. He gains the confidence that from now on you will not get away from him and will be able to forgive him for any, even the most terrible act. Previously, he had a goal - by any means to achieve your location and your love. Once you give up, his interest may begin to fade, and since guys are hunters by nature, they may find another victim for themselves, playing with which will be more fun and entertaining, and marriage with you is unlikely to stop them.
Another reason why it is worth reminding your lover a little less often about your feelings lies in the fact that true love can be seen without words. You can not talk about it, but prove it with your words, actions and care.
Why should you tell your spouse about love?
Other people argue that confessions of love to your soulmate are still necessary. The fact is that the family is built on mutual understanding and trust. Your husband must unconditionally be sure that, despite any difficulties, you will always be with him and will support him in any endeavors.
Some families are losing their former warmth and tenderness, their marital happiness is gradually erased by everyday problems, misunderstandings, scandals and quarrels. It drives them apart. Whatever happens between you, always remind your husband that you love him the way he is. Your confessions will make a man stronger. He will more steadfastly perceive all difficulties and fight obstacles if he believes that a loving and faithful woman is next to him.
