Recently, the number of couples has sharply increased, where a woman is much older than her chosen one. How to defend your right to love, even if others judge your choice?
Why do mature women choose young, inexperienced boys? The main reason is a strong maternal instinct. Such women either cannot have children, or they have already grown up and do not need care. A man here often plays the role of not only a lover, but also a child.
Love of different ages has an enemy - public opinion. Such unions are strongly condemned, especially among relatives of spouses, and in Russia this rate exceeds 90%. So what do you do?
Love yourself
If you are not indifferent to public opinion, then you are not quite confident in yourself or in the chosen one. And for a happy life, you need to understand how beautiful you really are. Do not chase youth: take care of yourself, but do not panic at the sight of a new wrinkle. Think about why the young man chose you, and not the same age. It's not about beauty, but about independence, self-confidence and emancipation. And in sexuality, the peak of which women reach closer to 40 years. Remember: if he preferred you to his peers, then only you can give him what he wants.
Make friends with your mother-in-law
Men who choose older women are often infantile and need support. By the age of 25, such mama's sons begin to look for a woman who can replace their mother, and when they find her, they usually break off relations with their parents. As a result, the mother-in-law blames the daughter-in-law for everything and opposes this marriage. If you want to save your husband's family and yours, do not dominate your spouse: let the mother-in-law think that he is in charge, and not vice versa. Make friends with your husband's mother at any cost. The more things you have to talk to, the better. Play by her rules, but maintain dignity - this combination will make relatives look at you favorably.
Share his interests
Friends and colleagues of the wife tend to see a dependent in her young chosen one and suspect him of infidelity. Introduce your husband to your company so you can spend time together. Do not deprive him of his usual entertainment. If he likes to actively spend Saturdays with friends, let him, and occasionally participate in their outings. Find some area that could become your hobby for two. In unequal marriages, the main thing is to be able to adapt to the situation and share other people's interests. Act with your spouse, and public opinion will cease to be an obstacle.
