Of course, if two adults fell in love with each other, then each of them perfectly understands that before him his chosen one also had a relationship. And this is perfectly obvious and normal. But some cannot overcome this jealousy of the past in themselves, and sometimes even scandals arise on this basis. Therefore, we must get rid of this habit.
Instructions
Step 1
The first thing to start with is to work on yourself. You just need to categorically forbid yourself to ask your partner about his former relationship. And show with all your appearance, you are not at all interested in what happened before. Otherwise, your partner may think that you yourself tend to regret your past, and then you will recognize real jealousy of the ghosts of the past.
Step 2
The second thing to remember is not to tell your loved one about your past in any way. As they say, do not be dashing while it is quiet.
Step 3
Third, we must take it as a rule that if the past interferes with the present, you should not pay attention to it at all. No need to remind your loved one once again that he had someone other than you. You are now his one and only. Just enjoy it.
Step 4
The fourth thing to keep in mind is mutual trust and respect. Therefore, forbid yourself to check your partner, for example, reading his messages, eavesdropping on telephone conversations and looking for evidence of cheating. Because if you persist in looking for something, you can find something.
Step 5
And, finally, fifth, if your loved one has ended his past relationship and is now with you, then this is an indicator that your relationship is serious. Therefore, in any case, do not spoil the relationship itself.
