There are quite a few men with a passion for cooking. True, not all of them are constantly ready to spend time in the kitchen, providing food for the family. However, there are also enthusiasts who completely push wives out of kitchens. It is not always clear what to do with them.
Pros of a well-cooked man
The free time can be considered the main plus; after work, you can devote time to caring for your appearance, read your favorite book, or do something else useful and enjoyable. You will have to tear yourself away from your affairs only when your beloved man calls you for dinner.
A varied and tasty food is another pleasant bonus for a culinary husband. Don't be complex, instead you can enjoy unusual dishes that you simply would not cook on your own.
And of course, your husband will never be able to reproach you for your poor cooking, because it was he who relieved you of this responsibility.
Cons of a cooking husband for his wife
The first, very "feminine" minus is the fact that you will definitely feel guilty from time to time because you do not cook. After all, the stereotypical beliefs laid down from childhood say that it is you who should cook. So the cooking man takes away an important purely female function from you.
The second minus is that you will have to eat what your husband has prepared. If you want something different, there may be a problem. Husbands very rarely know what their wives want to eat, since they prepare food according to some concept of their own.
Watch some cooking shows with your husband, he will appreciate it.
If you take the risk and cook something yourself, expect a debriefing. You will definitely find out that you did not expose or overexpose food on the fire, cut the ingredients incorrectly, did not report spices. You just have to put up with it. An offended husband may not touch your dish at all, which can be quite offensive.
Surviving with a male chef is quite simple, the main thing is to follow a few rules:
Don't argue with him about cooking, even if you know better. Men really don't like it when women think they're wrong.
Praise his meals. If you don't like something, hide the criticism in an abundance of praise.
Thank him for a delicious dinner or lunch. You can do it verbally, or you can just have sex.
Help your cook. Buy the ingredients of the future dish, be in the wings while cooking, but do not contradict him. Such help will be very pleasant to him.
Ask him questions about how the dish was prepared. This will make him feel needed.
When you find your husband in a good mood, ask him to teach you how to cook some interesting dish. Men like to feel like cool mentors.
If the cooking is not yours, master something else perfectly. Any interesting activity will do, from making flower arrangements to sewing.
Before cooking anything yourself, ask your husband's permission. This will avoid possible problems.
