Women tend to choose healthy, strong and mentally balanced partners. When assessing qualities, they rely on their own intuition and reason. There are a number of signs by which you can determine whether a man is mentally healthy and whether it is possible to build a relationship with him.
A healthy sense of humor
A mentally healthy man has a good sense of humor. If a person is gloomy, rarely smiles, does not understand jokes, this may indicate his tendency to depression, too high demands on himself and others. It is quite difficult to build relationships with such partners, and for some women they are categorically not suitable.
When choosing a man, you need to pay attention to those who know how to joke appropriately and subtly. The tendency to ridicule, to use "jokes below the belt" may indicate the presence of such problems as self-doubt, impulsivity.
Experts advise paying attention to how a man laughs. If he opens his mouth wide, throws his head back, makes loud exclamations, this may indicate a love of adultery or be signs of psychopathy. But being overly restrained is not a good sign either. Such people are prone to psychosis. If a man can look at his chosen one for a long time after said joke and at the same time does not look away, he should be suspected of aggressive behavior.
Ability to take responsibility for your actions
A mentally healthy and adequate man knows how to realize the consequences of his actions and be responsible for the actions he commits. He does not lose his temper, does not suffer from mood swings. If a person can flare up, say unpleasant things, and then asks for forgiveness, says that he was wrong, but everything repeats itself from the beginning, most likely, he is not completely healthy mentally.
Strange actions should also alert. The ability to control oneself and react adequately to any events is very important. A man who constantly raises his voice, threatens, humiliates the interlocutor who dared to object to him, cannot be considered mentally healthy. Finding such a person around will be depressing.
Features of sexual behavior
A mentally healthy man behaves adequately in the presence of women. He knows how to look after and assesses the feedback, adjusting his further behavior in accordance with it. If the chosen one demonstrates coldness and dislike, the man retreats, changes tactics or pauses. A persistent desire to achieve one's goal at any cost is a sign of tyranny and pathological jealousy. You need to be careful with such people.
A psychologically healthy man is easy to communicate and does not make claims, does not arrange scenes of jealousy for a girl at the very beginning of a relationship. Excessively clever, demonstratively defiant behavior can also be considered a sign of certain violations. Such people are proud, love to attract attention and tend to exaggerate their victories.
Sexologists believe that completely healthy men tend to choose women of a certain type. They are attracted by ladies with a feminine figure, lush hips, and a well-defined waist. Lovers of thin women, endowed with a "masculine" type of figure, as a rule, are childish and irresponsible. Some experts believe that such addictions may be a sign of latent homosexuality.
Having a hobby
If a man has a hobby, this is a very good sign. Passion for something makes it possible to switch attention, take a break from everyday problems.
If a person devotes too much free time to a hobby, this should be alarming. But it is not worth drawing any conclusions prematurely. Often, men push their hobbies into the background when a beloved woman appears in their life. The cause for excitement can be a complete lack of interest or a passion for gambling, computer games. In combination with a love of alcohol, one can even suspect hidden despotism and reduced intelligence.
Ability to cook
A mentally healthy man has basic self-care skills and knows how to cook. It's not about the ability of a chef. A man can only cook simple dishes and very rarely, but this skill is necessary. It indicates maturity, a developed sense of responsibility. In many modern families, both husband and wife work. Therefore, it is okay if from time to time a man takes care of cooking or doing some chores around the house. Unwillingness to do this work indicates infantilism. Such men grow up in families where women shoulder the entire burden of responsibility and pamper their sons, not allowing them to come to the stove and take initiative in relation to other responsibilities.
Attitude to sports
People who are concerned about physical health rarely suffer from mental disorders. It is very important for men to go to the gym or lead an active lifestyle. This gives them self-confidence, relieves complexes. If a man plays sports regularly, this is a very good sign.
Connected and competent speech
A hallmark of mental health is literate and connected speech. You need to pay attention to the manner of a man's conversation, the content of his remarks and monologues. An alarming sign is excessive narcissism, criticism of other people and a desire to ridicule someone, the use of obscene expressions in speech. If a man swears, not ashamed of his companion, it is worth considering whether such a partner is needed.
Inability to express their thoughts, inhibition of speech indicate a sluggish temperament, unwillingness to take responsibility. Experts believe that you need to avoid men who react too calmly to some sensitive issues. The further behavior of such people is difficult to predict.
