A pickup is a technique of quick acquaintance and seduction. As a rule, this so-called "art" is used by guys against girls. Pickupers use hypnosis techniques, NLP and other psychological techniques. In order not to suffer either psychologically or physically from the actions of such "masters", you need to know some protective techniques.
If we expand the definition of the word "pickup" a little and bring it under modern realities, then it will sound as follows. Pickup is a technique for quickly seducing a girl with minimal cost and in the shortest period of time.
Over the past decade, the pickup has become truly mainstream. And thanks to the development of the Internet, there are more and more participants in this movement.
Typically, pick-up artists use two basic pickup techniques. The first (fast, or "fast") is the ability to seduce a girl and dissolve for intimacy in the next few hours from the moment of meeting. The second method is called "three-way", and its essence is to fall in love with a girl. Moreover, the pick-up artist himself should not have any feelings for her, only physical attraction.
Usually, when meeting a beautiful girl, a guy is embarrassed, nervous, uncomfortable. In contrast to him, the pick-up artist is full of self-confidence, demonstrates assertiveness, arrogance. He is rapidly establishing contact, using all the psychological techniques and techniques available in the arsenal. Almost from the very first minutes, a girl may have the feeling that she has known this young man for a very long time. This effect is formed due to the "Tuning" method. Pikaper listens attentively to everything that the girl says, copies her actions. That is, it adjusts to it.
It is worth being wary if the interlocutor diligently copies the girl's gestures, if he translates all topics into her, asks more than tells.
Usually, the phrases uttered by the pick-up artist are carefully worked out and rehearsed to the smallest detail, which is why they may seem artificial. These phrases include the so-called "neghits". These are sarcastic, ironic remarks, not always harmless jokes. The pick-up artist needs them in order to take the girl out of the state of mental equilibrium. When emotional peace is disturbed, the victim is better influenced. In order not to fall for the bait, you need to carefully monitor everything that a new acquaintance says. At any hint of prepared phrases or an attempt to unbalance, any contact should be terminated immediately.
Touch is no less powerful and powerful weapon of impact. Usually they are done by chance, as if by accident. But don't underestimate them. "Kinesthetics" allows you to create the necessary reflexes in the victim, which will help her to quickly seduce.
But when a guy deliberately angers or annoys a girl, and then calms and placates, it means that he conducts "emotional buildup." This method is allowed to bind the victim to himself with strong emotions.
The essence of all pick-up techniques is to offer the girl a surrogate instead of real feelings and relationships. You should not expect sincerity or honesty from a pick-up artist, everything he does is done for the sole purpose of sex. Distinguishing him from someone interested in building a real relationship is pretty easy. The girl only needs to ask herself a series of questions. For example, that they are connected with a young man together. Did he do any good deeds for her, did he prove that he was worthy of trust, did he invest in this relationship. The answers to these questions will help you put everything in its place.
