Acquaintance, flirting, courtship, relationships are a classic scheme of the development of events between young men and women who are nice to each other. If the conqueror of the heart already has a boyfriend, then the relationship will be built in a different sequence: acquaintance, friendship, courtship, sympathy … And the result will depend solely on your efforts, charm, cunning and persistence.
Instructions
Step 1
To be sure to be successful, have information. Inquire about your opponent to get an idea of what kind of men she prefers. Its shortcomings are your "trump cards". Delayed at work, greedy, dislikes children / nature / theater, or is dismissive of your other half? Whatever it is, if this trait does not like your chosen one in her boyfriend, knowing about it can play into your hands. At least the fact that you will definitely not repeat the annoying mistakes of your opponent in relation to your girlfriend.
Step 2
Try to get close to the lady of the heart. Explore her preferences - musical, artistic, literary, her hobbies, visit those institutions and places where she likes to spend time. Being genuinely interested in her favorite things or activities will definitely give you the opportunity to maintain casual communication and be pleasant to her, discovering the similarities in your views. An ideal acquaintance, claiming to develop a relationship, should just happen in a place where a girl is not accompanied by a guy, where she is most relaxed, feels comfortable and is passionate about what she loves. For example, a gym, beauty salon, boutique, library, internet cafe, etc.
Step 3
Win her friendship. If you learn to listen, rather than dominate and dictate your opinion, your chances will increase exponentially. With a tactful, interesting, funny friend, she will open up, trust and sincerely appreciate such a platonic connection. Stay within reach for her so that at any moment she can contact you, ask for help, hear advice, or just talk. Having "accustomed" your friend to your society, you are practically close to the goal.
Step 4
Instead of establishing friendship after dating, you can go straight to the "attack". Throw her messages with declarations of love and passion. Be graceful, interesting, confident, persistent and resourceful. For example, send sweets / flowers to your workplace or home every day by courier. Give tickets to concerts, performances, present jewelry (for which there is enough wealth) or pleasant surprises with a hint of your feelings. If the chosen one answers messages, accepts gifts, treats you favorably - the fortress is almost conquered.
Step 5
When the girl gains confidence in either your sincere platonic friendship or your eternal and passionate love, it is time to disappear from sight. Create the appearance of your absence. Left without attention and powerful support, the young lady will be discouraged by such an unexpected turn and will think about you much more often than she herself would like.
Step 6
The last step remains. Watch carefully for her reactions to her humble return. Reproaches, joy, chirping, excitement, kisses will indicate that the lady is finally conquered. If you read indifference and indifference in her eyes - alas, it was not possible to “defeat” love for another.
