The problem of relationships in every family is not in the last place. And often, in order to live peacefully and enjoy communication with a loved one, you just need to learn to understand him.
Instructions
Step 1
The main thing in the relationship between a man and a woman is mutual understanding. But every woman before meeting her loved one had her own hobbies, her own understanding of life. Therefore, the first step towards mutual understanding will be the realization that two different people have different ideas about family life and its values. Understand that what is valuable and meaningful to you in the family can be absolutely indifferent to your life partner.
Step 2
90% of family relationships depend on the woman. Of course, if your case is not in that remaining 10%, start doing your internal analysis. Men are very subtle and it is foolish to deny it. They all feel the woman's attitude towards them. And your approval of his actions will have a very beneficial effect on his satisfaction with your relationship.
Remember the saying "When a person is called a pig a hundred times, he grunts." Be aware that this applies to any of your complaints. That is, for example, if you find fault with your beloved about the amount of alcohol you have drunk and focus on this, even if it happens only on holidays, he will unconsciously, in some cases, to spite you, will start to abuse alcohol. Try not to turn an elephant from a fly, then it can turn against you.
Step 3
Each person has their own positive qualities, but after a long time spent together, many couples begin to see only shortcomings, and the advantages are taken for granted. Therefore, discern all the dignity of a loved one and praise him for their manifestations. The main thing in your praises is intonation, tell the truth, do not flatter, because he will immediately feel it. If you criticize, then do not do it harshly, it can offend.
Step 4
Eliminate resentment from your life. They burden the mind, generate anger, aggressiveness, and interfere with making the right and necessary decision. Resentment comes from the fact that your expectations are not met, hence self-esteem is lowered. Discuss your concerns with your loved one, but listen to his point of view as well.
Step 5
It so happens that the second half constantly says that you devote little time to him, but it seems to you that all this is unimportant and ignore his claims. If he needs it, start spending more time together. The main thing is to understand that you need to hear the other person and give him what he asks for. And if you really value your relationship, then changing your habits and behavior a little for the sake of true love will not be so difficult.
Step 6
Remember the main truth: if a person feels loved, then he will begin to strive to do everything for your happiness.
