In life, it often happens that a person falls in love with someone who does not pay attention to him at all. This situation is especially painful in youth. It is not for nothing that so many youth books and films have been written about the eternal drama of discrepancies. But it is not always necessary to come to terms with fate, because it is quite possible to attract the attention of a person you like.
More often girls find themselves in a similar situation: they are more emotional, vulnerable and, moreover, they have fewer opportunities to show initiative. However, you can always try to gradually push the object of your sympathy to action. But, of course, first you need to interest him.
Before proceeding with the action, you should decide what the girl herself wants: to be dominant in the relationship and achieve everything with the help of her own efforts, or to become a gentle and charming creature that will be protected and protected. The second option is, perhaps, still more attractive.
To achieve the desired goal and allow a young man to conquer himself, it takes a lot of effort. For a start, it doesn't hurt to find out if he has a girlfriend. If he's dating someone, it's best to give up trying. As you know, happiness cannot be built on someone else's misfortune.
If a young man is free, it is necessary to find out what his interests are and in what places he most often happens. It could be a gym or a hobby club. In this case, it’s not bad for the girl to be there by chance, preferably not alone, but in the company. At the same time, it is better to notice the object of your sympathy not immediately and also as if by chance.
If possible, it is worth watching how he interacts with other people, especially with his mother, sister or girls with whom he works or studies. From these observations it can be concluded what kind of treatment can be expected from him and whether this should be sought.
Sometimes a girl tries to arouse interest from a young man, creating the illusion that she is already dating someone. So she wants to demonstrate to him her attractiveness and "relevance". In fact, you don't need to do this. A decent person can just step aside, even if the girl really interested him.
You must try to always be in sight, but this does not imply obsession at all. You just need to be active so as not to let the young man forget about his existence. In dealing with him, you must always be friendly and benevolent and at the same time behave completely naturally.
Of course, you should always be patient and self-possessed. Let everything go naturally. Joint training or other activities can always provide an opportunity for communication. A girl should be as interested in the life of a young man as possible, find common topics for conversation, on occasion letting go of well-deserved praise. Men are pleased with the increased attention to their person.
Having attracted the attention of a young man, you need to give time to develop his feelings. If a guy and a girl find points of contact, and she manages to make her company pleasant for him, he will soon begin to act on his own.
