Love has thousands of definitions, because each person understands it in his own way. For some it is a passion, for others it is a concern, for others it is a stable family life. Love is a thousand roads. And in order to achieve it, you need to know what route our future second half is moving.
Instructions
Step 1
Find out the route. The understanding of love is formed from psychological characteristics, social and cultural traditions of a person. For some, the norm is to pay in half for dinner in a restaurant, demonstrating respect for the rights of women. Others need to build a house and buy forty camels to prove their feelings. Or give birth to seven children. The fewer white spots on a person's map, the easier it is to find a route to his heart.
Step 2
Get to know yourself. Love intoxicates, prevents you from looking into your heart and obscures your mind. It seems to us that we can go to the ends of the world, drastically change our lives and not repent afterwards. But this is not the case. We need to understand at what stage of the path we can turn, giving up our feelings. And do we not injure the person whom we wanted to conquer?
Step 3
Mutual generosity. Love is an energy exchange: spiritual, emotional, material, in the end, physical. In order for feelings not to stagnate, but to advance, it is important to maintain a certain pace. Or rather, focus on the pace of the second half. There are women who love to be conquered in a roundabout way. There are those who do not like to darken. Some men feel comfortable with a well-groomed and successful woman, others need a well-mannered and homely, third - a party girl. It is not worth practicing telepathy, it is better to find out everything directly.
Step 4
Respect the other person. There can be no love without respect, recognition of his rights, needs. Although many people understand love as an undivided power over another person. Such love will turn into terrible disappointment and ruined destiny. After all, some feelings cause others. Resentment leads to a feeling of revenge. And mutual respect is mutual tenderness on which the brightest, most beautiful and constant love blooms.
