Unfortunately, family fights are unavoidable. Sometimes they become the reason for divorce. You need to make every effort to learn not to quarrel with your wife.
It is important to contain your emotions. If you have children, think about them first. They become witnesses of your scandals with your wife, and their psyche suffers greatly from this. To avoid it, just exercise a little more patience and take care of your beloved woman.
Ways to avoid quarrels
First, think about what causes quarrels in your family, what causes conflicts. Dirty clothes? Unwashed dishes? Or maybe your wife simply cannot cope with her duties for the reason that she does not have enough time for this? Put yourself in her shoes: parenting, cooking, cleaning, washing, ironing, working. Do you think it is easy for her to carry out her duties? Now think, what are you doing? Just working and hammering a nail into the wall once a month? Instead of starting to grumble under her breath, what a bad wife you have, help her: cook food together (by the way, this brings spouses very close), get out, spend more time together, walking in parks and visiting cafes.
Quarrels can also arise when a husband and wife get angry at each other after a hard day at work. Learn to control your emotions. If you don't know where to direct negative energy, buy a punching bag. As soon as you feel that you want to take off on someone, immediately hit this sporting attribute. Believe me, it will become much easier for you. If your wife is the initiator of quarrels, do not fall for her provocations. Just leave the house, buy her a bouquet of flowers and hand it to her. Believe me, your spouse will be ashamed of her behavior, and she will be very happy about your approach to conflict resolution. Do not think that in this way you will show your weakness. On the contrary, this will show your wife how much you love her.
Talk heart to heart with your spouse more often. Tell her in a calm voice what you don't like about her, and listen carefully to her. Explain to your spouse that these conversations are essential to your peaceful existence. Encourage her to see a family counselor once a week to help your couple hear and listen to each other.
Do not fall for provocations
If your wife starts to make a scandal, imagine that you are in a different place. Let her tell you whatever she wants. At this time, you should mentally be in some wonderful place (on a sandy beach near the sea, sunbathing in the sun) and count to yourself to a hundred. If your spouse calms down, just walk up to her, hug her, tell her how you love her and don't want to quarrel. Explain to her that you both need to reconsider your relationship to each other in order to live in peace and harmony.
