Some women are madly jealous of their man for his past - ex-wife or girlfriend. Deep down, they understand that they are wrong, but they are not able to cope with this feeling.
Instructions
Step 1
You have to accept your man for who he is. There is nothing wrong with the fact that he was married or had children from the marriage. After all, when you met and fell in love with him, you learned about his past. Understand that what happened cannot be changed, no matter how much you want it.
Step 2
Try to understand your man. Imagine yourself in his place. If, for example, you had children from your previous marriage, would you want to be separated from them? If a man becomes your husband, this does not mean at all that he should leave his children, he will in any case remain a father to them. Let the spouse decide how much time he will spend with them and with his ex-wife. Do not tie or reproach him, otherwise he will want to break free.
Step 3
Be loyal to everything. An ex-wife can call your husband, ask for advice on matters concerning children, and even ask for help. The father is obliged to participate in the upbringing of children. Think about how you would feel about a man who does not care for his child.
Step 4
Don't talk bad about your husband's children from his first marriage. Better, on the contrary, try to improve relations with them. And if the ex-wife is against it, do not insist and do not be offended. Let your spouse talk to their child on their own.
Step 5
Don't think about your spouse's ex-wife, rather pay more attention to yourself. Improve yourself, because you should be the best and most beautiful for your husband. Plus, you won't have time to dig into your feelings at all.
Step 6
If you want to be truly happy and loved, then try to get two things out of your mind. The first is children's fear of not being loved enough, since a person receives as much love as he gives. The second is the attitude to the spouse as to property. Love does not take root in captivity. As soon as you "take possession" of your husband, he wants to leave.
