It often takes not only a lot of time to compile a list of invitees, but also a lot of nerves. The bride wants to invite all her friends, while crossing out the groom's ex-girlfriend, and the groom does not want to see his beloved colleague at the wedding.
Making a wedding guest list is not an easy task. How not to quarrel during the wedding preparation, keeping the thrill of anticipation of a happy holiday?
Guest List Rules
The most important rule, which is difficult to convey to relatives, is that a wedding is a holiday for the newlyweds. Therefore, it is up to them to decide who will be present at the celebration.
To avoid unnecessary questions and grievances, you should not tell the whole world about the triumph. People who do not want to be seen as guests will certainly take an interest in the wedding or hint that they would like to attend. And it can be difficult to refuse.
The guest list is compiled according to the wedding budget. If the scale of the celebration allows, you can invite all your friends. If a modest wedding is planned, it is better to celebrate it with a narrow circle of relatives and close friends, but choose a better restaurant. Instead of trying to stretch the list of invitees by transferring the holiday to the dining room.
It is desirable that the number of friends of the groom, friends of the bride and the total number of relatives should be approximately the same.
Only those who will be really glad, who can sincerely rejoice for the happiness of the young, should be invited. Don't invite someone out of a sense of duty.
Parents who wish to invite their friends, neighbors or distant relatives should politely explain that newlyweds have the right to refuse.
In case of refusal of one of the guests, you should make a small list of three or four couples who can be invited to the vacated seats.
How to invite guests
With the list in place, it's time to think about the invitation. A wedding invitation is a kind of a hanger in the theater, it sets the mood for the future celebration.
Some couples make a mini-movie invitation and send discs to all guests. If possible, you can order designer invitations made in the theme of the wedding. For example, in the form of a banknote or a movie ticket. Simple invitations in delicate colors, decorated with ribbons and lace, are classics and will suit any wedding.
According to etiquette, you need to invite to a wedding at least a month before the celebration. However, it is also not worth inviting guests for six months, they may simply forget about your holiday.
At the end of the invitation text, you can make a note about the request for an answer. Then you don't have to call all the guests to find out their decisions.
