An easy romantic relationship that does not commit to anything is probably the dream of so many men and women. However, such a relationship cannot last long. Sooner or later, they must grow into something more, or completely disappear. If in your life now there is a loved one whom you do not want to lose, but on the contrary to strengthen the relationship, then this article is for you.
Instructions
Step 1
Wherever your relationship is at, always answer honestly questions such as: Do I need this person? Am I ready to put up with his habits, shortcomings? Don't be under the illusion that when your relationship gets more serious, these features will disappear, or you can change your loved one. If you already have a desire to remake it, then do you even need such a person next to you?
Step 2
Keep in mind that both you and your potential soul mate are personalities with a huge inner world, who should always have their own corner. That is, even if you are constantly together, you both should have your own interests, your time for meeting friends and for your hobbies. This will help you not to lose interest in each other, you will have something to share with each other. There is nothing worse than a book you read. They rarely return to it, usually they turn to a new one.
Step 3
Self-esteem and self-confidence are an important part of your relationship. Initially, the initiative should come from you and your partner equally. You do not need to constantly annoy him with your calls, so you not only invade his personal space, but also leave him no room for maneuvers.
Step 4
Know how to ask for and offer help. A man needs to make it clear that his help is needed, a woman - that she is protected and loved. But, in any case, do not make claims about unfulfilled promises. After all, everyone has other responsibilities, other interests and needs. You are not always the center of the universe. By being appropriate about what your partner should and shouldn't, you will have fewer resentments, expectations, and quarrels.
Step 5
Learn to talk to each other. Often women are offended by their men that they are inattentive and cannot guess what she wants. However, men are not psychics. It will be better if both partners openly inform each other about their needs and expectations. The topics of conversation are different. This can be your sexual relationship, your plans, what you would like to see in your relationship, and so on. Conversation is especially important when there is some kind of misunderstanding.
Appreciate, respect each other, talk to each other more often and your relationship will only get stronger.
