Certain traits of a woman's character can both attract the desired man and scare him away. Of course, representatives of the stronger sex, first of all, pay attention to their appearance. However, even the most beautiful and desirable girl can alienate a man from herself if she has some habits.
Concentration on the negative and frequent tears. Men take very hard moments when a woman cries. As a rule, most males simply have no idea what to do in such a situation. In addition, subconsciously, a man begins to blame himself for the hysteria of his chosen one. When, in principle, there is no reason for tears or they become a way of manipulation, sooner or later this will lead to conflicts and aggression on the part of a man. If a woman constantly concentrates only on the negative, complains, she has a tendency to whine at the slightest pretext, then this will very quickly scare off the young man. In the end, you can hardly find such people who would like it when they constantly grumble next to them, escalate the situation, talk about something bad, spoil their mood.
Desire to control. Men love freedom. Many members of the stronger sex find it difficult to tolerate attempts to control women. You need to understand that personal space, the opportunity to be alone with yourself, the inviolability of personal belongings are very important for both men and women themselves. If you try to constantly monitor and track every male step, clean up his things, throw away his personal belongings or clothes, without consulting a man, arrange scandals and interrogations from scratch, all this will turn into a disorder in relationships and ruin even the strongest love …
The tendency to constantly compare your chosen one with other men or former lovers. Such behavior on the part of a woman cannot be tolerated by any man. Perhaps, at first, the beloved will react condescendingly to such comparisons, to some comments and conversations on a similar topic. However, gradually he will simply get tired of this. In addition, the constant comparison - especially not for the better - of a man with other people leads to the fact that his self-esteem suffers greatly. This can lead not only to frequent quarrels for no reason, but also to a depressive state in a young man. If a woman, comparing her chosen one with other / former men, acts out of good intentions, for example, trying to somehow motivate a man, then it would be better to abandon this method. Rather, it will encourage, praise and support, stimulate your loved one in other, positive ways.
Passion for partying and frivolous attitude to money. Cheerful, bright and showy girls often attract male attention. However, if a young man is tuned in to a really serious and harmonious relationship with his beloved, he will not at all appreciate the woman's love for constant parties and parties. In addition, if a woman spends many times more time with her friends and girlfriends, prefers to hang out in a club or regularly attend various events, a man begins to feel unnecessary, useless and abandoned. This can lead both to betrayal and to a break in relations. Do not forget that the representatives of the stronger sex do not encourage thoughtless spending of money. Especially in a situation where the financial situation in a couple depends, first of all, on the man.
Inability to keep your mouth shut. In this case, it means a craving for gossip, for empty chatter and such a trait as the inability to keep other people's secrets. Listening constantly to endless stories of a girl about what and how in the life of friends and acquaintances, a man can be bored, uninteresting. However, he can somehow abstract from this. But it will be much more difficult for him to dismiss the idea that his chosen one easily tells everyone and everyone about her relationship, about intimate life, without a twinge of conscience shares with her friends various secrets and secrets of her chosen one, and so on. Such formed suspicion can negatively affect the character of the young person, the relationship and his feelings.
